Tonight I was in my boyfriend's room, and found a pair of knickers. They weren't mine, so I asked him what was going on. He said that they were his and sometimes he likes to dress in girl's clothes. I don't believe him. For one thing, he's a similar size to me, and they were way too small.
I want to believe him, but things just don't ring true.
What should I do?
Luv,
Bex
2006-12-19 10:21:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should look at the writing on the wall and decide if you can live in this new situation. If you ignore it, it will happen again and again. If you scream, he will feel justified in leaving you and miss tiny pants can console him about what a shrew you are. If you are reasonable and walk away he still has miss tiny pants and can act like "See you don't care, you just left". You must decide what the last image you want to leave him with will be. Ultimately, you will likely not ever have to deal with this person again, so his opinion of you does not really matter - so do what you need to, to feel good about yourself and move on.
If it was me and the convo was over I would just be inclined to not take his calls - block his number and just make him disappear (unless we were living together - then I would pack and move).
I am sorry he let you down my dear - but take heart though in knowing that this is more a beginning than an ending for you. Remember that the new is always better than the old and that each relationship that fails helps us to pinpoint exactly what we want in a long term mate. You get closer with each one - relax and enjoy it, and don't waste your anger or energy on someone who has so little regard for the feelings of another that he would treat you this way. xoxo!
Peace!
2006-12-19 10:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pay close attention for the next little while, do not jump to any conclusions until you have all the facts, it's possible that he was up to no good, but since you can't prove it for sure just keep you eyes peeled for any future occurrences. Also, if you feel that he is treating you differently and wants to end the relationship, don't be played for a fool and get out of this first.
Good luck
2006-12-19 10:27:34 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If there are no other women's clothing in his place, then I'd say he's a liar. Men who like to wear women's clothes usually have a whole wardrobe of the prettiest clothes you've ever seen that would fit him perfectly. Don't forget to look for the wigs and fake nails.
2006-12-19 10:26:43 · answer #3 · answered by Call Me Babs 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It could also be demanding for you, however your mother is most effective protective you and does now not desire whatever to occur to you. Age change does now not topic she is going to continuously count on a man is to ancient for you due to the fact that you're her daughter. And sure your mother will have met your father the identical time you met yours and your mother often made a few errors that she simply does now not desire repeated to you. Just pay attention to her due to the fact that ultimately if whatever does occur to you, you are going to believe unhealthy for now not listening and you are going to remorse the results.
2016-09-03 15:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends which bothers you more....
him being a possible cheater?
or a cross-dresser who might show up at a party wearing the same thing you were?
It is up to you...personally I believe once a cheater always a cheater!
2006-12-19 10:27:05 · answer #5 · answered by Tanya N (thesingingbeaner) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you heard that song "it wasn't me", even if you see him with another girl, he is going to deny it. It is male nature. It is up to you to continue with him or finish the relationship. If you dump him, at least you keep your pride and HE WILL RESPECT YOU, because HE KNOWS YOU KNOW.
Besides, lets pretend he was telling the truth, DO YOU WANT TO DATE A TRANSVESTI??????
Honey, run like hell!!!!!!!!!
Sorry, nither option is good
2006-12-19 10:26:56 · answer #6 · answered by Edith Avatar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump....or you could just see if hes tellin you tha truth but he's probably not because that is like super weird for a guy to like to dress in girls clothes....
2006-12-19 10:26:38 · answer #7 · answered by ♥baby gurl♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously hes a cheater and a liar...and not even a very good liar. Leave him
2006-12-19 10:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by ReRe 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
either way if they were his own or another girls, that is definitely a sign that you need to find a guy a little more honest with you and himself.
2006-12-19 10:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dump de Dump Dump
2006-12-19 10:23:45 · answer #10 · answered by worldsource19 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋