me and this girl have gone to school together for along time we never really flirted untill this year she just got out of a relationship with one of my freinds and my freind went out with her for about 5 months last year they where really getting close to eachother they kissed and did what everyother highschooler that really likes someone would do they broke up then this year they got back together and my freind used her for sex then he broke up with her me and her talked until 3am on the phone last night 6 hours today in school she was acting strange maybe because of some of the things we said over the phone to eachother well anyways over the phone i asked her who she liked she said im not saying anything I asked if they where in our grade she said yes she made it obvios it was me im fine with that me and her flirt all the time i kinda like her to eventaully over the phone she said she liked me and i said i liked her after a bit she said she liked me but didnt want to date help please
2006-12-19 10:19:42 · 20 answers · asked by lovesuckssometimes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yall listen she said she liked me as in she wanted me to ask her out i talked to her on phone for 6 damn hours something changed her mind she's still a virgin and I really do like her and I think she is way out of my league but idk she said she'd still go out with me like the mall or movies but she didnt want a boyfreind before I asked her out :( im really getting stressed out over this
2006-12-19 10:39:59 · update #1
dang ... you're in a rut. you like her. she likes you. BUT!!!! i hate that BUT... love and romance is always just a eternal stream of ever rushing BUT's. you gotta kick the BUT in it's butt. be a man and tell her you like her. tell her, "in a world where nothing seems to matter, you matter. in a life that full sadness you're the joy. in a vision of darkness and hopelessness you're the light that shines a path that leads to beauty. You are the one for me!" then before she can say "but" take your index finger and touch her lips as if to shush her. take her by her hand with your other hand and have her touch your heart and say, "can you feel that? that's my heart beating for you, my love. forget everything that happened to you in the past. the past is gone, and i'm your future." then when she starts to cry grab her passionately by her shoulders and lean in as if to kiss her... when you get near her face graze her cheeks with your cheeks and hold her as if she were the last thing your were going to hold before world ended. by then hopefully she'll have fallen in desperate love with you...the kind that nothing could tear apart... nothing except for maybe a naked brad pitt or daniel craig or something. hope that helps
2006-12-19 10:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by frdsgt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude....BACK OFF...!!! Geeze, give the girl some room to breathe! If you like her, act like it and then don't worry about all of this stuff. You can like anyone you want. It doesn't mean you're getting married or anything. Just relax and be friends. Limit your phone time to an hour. If you want to tell her she is special to you then tell her just that: "I think your'e special". And RELAX...enjoy her company and stop pressuring her. Hey, buy her a flower or something. Just back away...you have lots of time to be with girls. AND...you're just making it hard on yourself right now with all of the pressure. Godloveya.
2006-12-19 10:24:38 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is afraid to date you because you are a good friend to her and she doesn't want to take a chance that the same thing will happen again and if you really like this girl you should take it slow and easy with her and re asure her the same thing won't happen again after all she has been hurt recently and needs time to heal so give her that time and be there for her and see where it goes from there if you really like her
2006-12-19 10:24:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well is she likes you and you like her, then there really is no problem, if you like her alot and are willing to wait then wait. It's obviouse that she's not ready to start dating again, and she needs time. Give her some space, you can still flirt with her, but she needs time to recover. The time will come when you two will go out but right now wait for her. She will come eventually.
2006-12-19 10:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by music_angel555 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she doesn't want to date, because she's afraid you might use her for sex like her ex-boyfriend did. Next time you talk you might want to tell her that she can trust you and that if she is worried about being used again, then tell her you're not like that and you will respect her.
2006-12-19 10:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are a few possible situations here. 1) She likes you, really thought you were joking, and has insecurity issues. 2) She likes you and knew you were being serious. Her friend likes you, too, though, and she feels either guilty that you like her, or jealous that you like her friend. 3) Only her friend likes you, and she's shocked that you prefer both of them. 4) She is the only one who likes you, and she's jealous of her friend. 5) She got hungry/had to go to the bathroom. Girls are confusing--go ahead and sit down with her in person to ask what happened.
2016-03-29 00:41:02 · answer #6 · answered by Elaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's on a rebound, whatever you do, keep her at arms length with the dating side of things still be her friend, but if need be, tell her that this is ALL you want from her, a friendship, it'll be hard, but its for the best.
2006-12-19 10:24:22 · answer #7 · answered by Brutal_Yet_Beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say give her space. She just came out of something that no girl, especially in high school, should ever go through. Be there for her as much as you can and always let her know how much she means to you. One day something could happen if you give it time.
2006-12-19 10:22:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she likes you but doesn't want to date, then basically you are friends.
2006-12-19 10:23:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just doesn't want to get into a relationship because of her last bf who used her for sex.... and u were that guys friends so maybe she thinks that you will do the same thing to her, just talk to her about that.
2006-12-19 10:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by love_alw_693 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋