How come guys that can't have me always call me 'hot' and 'sexy'? However, if and/or when I want them back or they become single, nothing ever happens? Seriously...I haven't had a boyfriend in two years. I don't get it!!!!
2006-12-19 10:16:01 · 7 answers · asked by KR1981 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well..dang..that sucks. I think I also have the problem of being attracted to guys I can't have. Ahhh...life is kicking my ***.
2006-12-19 10:24:25 · update #1
One more piece of info...I'm a college graduate.... 25 yrs old. Doesn't make sense.
2006-12-19 10:25:56 · update #2
Whenever you have been single for while, it normal you become very selective because you have been nourishing in your mind the best match possible.At this moment,you're on your way to a professional career, the word "picky" may sound familiar to you and I think it's a 100% ok. Sometimes,you got let go off some of the relationship standards.If you're hot and sexy like you said, these guys must be intimidated by you.Maybe you have to loosen up a lil bit so they feel less challenge to flirt with you.If patience is one of your virtue,then the great one may cross your path because of your wisdom.
2006-12-20 09:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by Truedawg4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are hanging out with the wrong kind of guys, as in immature boys who have a lot of growing up to do.
Relationships are never simple but when u r interested in someone and they are in you, you can then start dating, without rushing into anything, get to know each other at a steady pace, develop a friendship and take it from there,
If you find someone who is for you and the interest is mutual they will not play games. I assure you,
good luck
2006-12-19 10:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't had a lady in 2 years, but I ain't trippin. You just gotta have hope & confidence in your looks and yourself, cuz if not, you are just makin' it worse. You'll find the right guy soon, if you make your self attractive, and have confidence. I've had many girls callin me cute & such, but they never made moves, and I never tripped out. Just be cool, and have confidence, and someone will come...God Bless.
2006-12-19 10:28:31 · answer #3 · answered by Tar Heel 4 Life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to think that when they wanted you, you didnt want them. And think about how that made them feel. And for you to want them after they are with someone else, they think..." now she wants me, when she cant have me" So make yourself available when they want you, you cant decide when you are going to like someone. If you like them you like them, you cant just say I like you right now but maybe later i wont want you, or i dont like you now but ask me in a couple weeks, i might like you then... Doesnt sound too good out loud does it????
2006-12-19 10:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
boiz that call girls hot or sexy etc are NOT worth it believe me you want a guy who calls you beautiful you should try making the first move dont wait around for them
2006-12-19 10:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by pink_n_purfect1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you havent meet your guy yet.. hot and sexy are just stuffs that guys call any girls that are attractive. the words you should be looking for is pretty or beatiful.
2006-12-19 10:20:26 · answer #6 · answered by Tyler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep looking.
2006-12-19 10:21:26 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋