Ever forgive a cheat?Tell me about it?

Answer 1

I went out with a guy one time. We were really close and had been together for 3 years. Well one day I went out to a choir practice and came back and found him with my best friend. So, I know this is going to sound terrible, but I went with his best friend while we were still technically together. He caught us and got super mad, well I confronted him about her and he got super mad and horrible. He never talked to his best friend after that and I have no idea what happened to my best friend. Well for my birthday that year he came over and apologized and said he wanted to stay friends and that I should have listened to what a **** she was. We still remain friends and who knows? Maybe one day more.

Answer 2

yes, he did it to me over and over again until I left him. He said he was sorry and wouldn't do it again and he loved me, at times he even tried denying it even when I had proof......don't ever put up with a cheat....if you forgive once they'll do it again and think you'll just end up forgiving them. I know I've been the cheater and the cheated.

Answer 3

I think that it is important 4 every 1 2 be able 2 have a 2nd chance. wen my ex had cheated on me, it was really hard tryin 2 trust hm again but we workd it out. i made a list of all the good things v.s. the bad things about him abd the good over powerd the bad. so yes i gave him a nother chance. and i wud expect the same

Answer 4

I'm in the same boat. I asked several questions on yahoo trying to figure out the same thing. Its only been a few weeks but it is really hard to get over her. Every day gets better though. I still have not decided but it seems like it is best to leave that decision for a later date. Every day that goes by makes it easier to think with my head and not with my heart. Eventually I should be able to make a smart decision. Good luck. I know how it feels

Answer 5

'Forgiving is hard but forgetting is impossible ! Best is to start afresh. That relashionship will NEVER be the same again !! That's my motto... so it is not a question of forgiving... it is a case of not being able to forget... That is what is going to prevent the aggrieved party from wanting to continue with the relationship.

Answer 6

My bf Terrance cheated on me and I really loved him so I stayed with him, but I had so much resentment about what he did that I couldnt never got over it, that ruins SO much trust and it makes you parinoid, I did end up breaking up with him b/c I told him I forgave him but I really didnt.
-If you are in the smae situation just think if you can HONESTLY forgive and forget b/c if you dont you arent being fair to either one of you

Answer 7

Never have. The one who cheated I broke up with...but a lot of other issues were involved. I can't really say if I would or wouldn't. I guess I'd have to wait until such a situation occurred. Hopefully I never have to :D.

Answer 8

I believe you can forgive them but not take them back because if they cheat on you once they will do it again.
Trust me!!

Answer 9

I took back a cheater once...The problem was that it was very hard to trust him when we got back together. If he didn't call right when he was supposed to, or I couldn't get a hold of him, I was always thinking "who is he with...what is he doing..." It was very difficult, especially when we were out separately. I ended up meeting someone else and dumping him a month after we got back together.

Answer 10

Yes. I went back and things have changed but I cannot trust him fully. I will always wonder. And on the flipside, I believe he is now worried that I am going to retaliate at some point.