So i have been dating my boyfriend for over a year now but i still am constantley going on his ex girlfriend myspace page and wondering what is she doing or especially how pretty she is. I know i am not an ugly girl i think im cute but i just dont think im as pretty as her and i cant get over that i am so jealous. And it sucks becuase i dont know i hate feeling like this help somebody so i can get over this. ANd the wierd part is this is the first time in my life i have ever felt this way and i dont know why it sucks and i really want to get over it please help
2006-12-19 10:07:42 · 8 answers · asked by Patrick Star 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to take a good look at yourself and ask yourself why you have such a poor outlook and opinion of yourself....Stay away from the ex girlfriends page...she is the ex and you are the current but if you don't pull it together, you may soon be the ex as well...good luck
2006-12-19 10:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get over your feeling is to stop worrying about someone else and think of yourself. Stop going on the myspace sight and looking at this other girl who you think is so pretty. It seems clear that your boyfriend doesn't think so. After all he is with you and not talking to you about how pretty his ex-girlfriend is now is he? If he is not doing that then he thinks the world of you. Besides, looks isn't everything. Remember, looks fade with the years and it is the personality and what is inside a person that counts and remains for a lifetime. Take a look at yourself in the mirror and just say, "I am as pretty and intelligent as any girl in this world." Believe in yourself and know that you are worth more than any boy could ever want or need. Know what I mean?
2006-12-19 10:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the first time you've felt this way because this is the first time you've opened up emotionally and it feels vulnerable. The best thing you can do it to find a way to stop looking at her page or you will drive yourself absolutely crazy. Take it from personal experience. Some guys are shallow and all about physical appearance but some are about physical appearance and how you make them feel. Rest assured if he wanted to be with her she would not be his ex-girlfriend. He wants the one he's with, YOU..silly. It's be a whole year and if everything is fine between you too chill out before you create a problem that's not there with your insecurity. This is actually your own issue and it really has nothing to do with him unless he's given you signs that he wishes he still was with her or compare's you to her. If that's the case work it out or leave.
2006-12-19 10:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to worry my dear, it's perfectly natural that you feel jealous of his ex. You love the guy deeply, and maybe this is your first real love so any competition past or present will bother you.
Now listen carefully. They broke up. I repeat. THEY BROKE UP. He is with you now and that is that. She is out of the picture. Get it through your head and understand this very fundamental fact, that if you behave in an overly jealous manner regarding his ex, you will destroy this relationship for no reason. focus on what you have now, forget the past and leave her alone, Do not make her more important then you. Make sure you and your boyfriend do not discuss her at all, find other subject and activities.
Be smart, good luck
2006-12-19 10:15:49 · answer #4 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well everyone is self councious in there life. It is normal. If your bf still had feelings for her then he would be going out with her. He likes you and that is what counts. Just because she is pretty doesn't mean she isnt mean and stuck up and snobby in real life. Just remember that YOU are pretty to and he likes YOU not her. If she is his EX then you shouldnt be worried. He is probably in love with you and over her.
2006-12-19 10:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by DUDE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your b/f talk about his ex a lot?, or maybe he is not very attentive with you or show you the love that you are expecting from him this is one reason you have no confidence in you relationship, but remember his ex has nothing to do your now current relationship.
2006-12-19 10:14:19 · answer #6 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i'm unsure if this alteration into the 2d yet once you asked this question it got here up in the present day in my memory. i substitute into approximately 13 and the main properly-known guy in our little gang substitute into my boyfriend yet to be easy he were the boyfriend of most of the girls in it - it substitute into purely my turn and that i did no longer sense shelter. I heard he were putting out at those different females' place and that i substitute into disillusioned so I confronted him and he admitted it yet did no longer look to think of this alteration right into a controversy even however we've been assume to be unique i presumed. (undergo in techniques at this element we've been too youthful to be having intercourse or something). besides, I mentioned i did no longer think of i ought to handle this and that i desired to break up. swiftly he had greater appreciate for me and that i left so empowered to be waiting to have the flexibility to reject the main properly-known guy around yet in addition to be unfastened from his BS. I left feeling i substitute into finally on top of problems with myself.
2016-10-18 12:18:38 · answer #7 · answered by sachiko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are starting to feel insecure...do not...have faith...he is with you andnot her!!!
2006-12-19 10:10:37 · answer #8 · answered by iloeta1164 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋