My man..comes home and gives me a hug and kiss and does his usual routine of shave his face and head and talk to me before he jumps in the shower. While hes doing this he'll have a couple of beers. He does this everyday. I mean.. he doesnt have enought to get drunk or anything..but just drinks about 2-3 beers everyday. Should this concern me.. does it bother any of you ladies out there. I mean.. i guess I just dont get the point of it.... or any guys do this and want to explain why this is sooo necessary.. just curious..
thanks
2006-12-19 09:39:20 · 19 answers · asked by Mily1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just FYI.. I dont mention it to him..because its not a problem yet. Hes not getting drunk and acting crazy. I was just wondering if its caused anyone else problems.. thanks
No i dont nag him about it.. i wont say anything about it unless it becomes a problem
2006-12-19 09:47:41 · update #1
As long as he is not getting drunk on a daily basis it should not concern you in the least. In fact, medically it has been shown that a couple of drinks a day is a healthy thing. Red wine is the best, but beer is not bad either. However, it does contain a lot of "empty" calories that are of concern if he has a weight problem. In fact, my family doctor actually encouraged my wife to drink a glass of wine each day to help her HDL/LDL balance. When she told him she did not like red wine he told her beer would also be beneficial.
2006-12-19 09:45:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sure are lucky. You get your kiss and hug; he comes home and drinks his beers at home, and only a couple. That is great; he is only relaxing and getting comfortable. On the other hand - I will tell you about mine (it is breaking our relationship and he doesn't understand why). He is the type that will drink mostly everyday. Not one or two beers but a whole 30 pack. He will not buy milk or bread, but the beer has to be in the fridge. On his days off that is all he does. He can even start very early in the morning until the next day. Now you tell me if you aren't lucky.
2006-12-19 09:50:23 · answer #2 · answered by Ladyinred 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WoW!!! Well I thought MY husband was a mommas boy! You have married yourself to a very immature mommas boy. The bible even says a man is to leave his parents and cleave to his wife. You can't live as a married couple and make a family if he only wants to be up under his momma forever. Is he still breastfeeding? Maybe thats why he is there all the time LOL. Sorry but for real, you will spend the rest of your marriage in competition with his mother if you don't put a stop to it now. I'm dealing with that now and its a no win situation. I definitely think you need to consider other options and look for a man who is more on your level.
2016-05-22 22:04:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do pretty much the same thing. Recent studies show that moderate drinking (4 drinks for men, 2 for women, per day) helps ward off a whole host of problems including heart disease and high blood pressure! During the study, moderate drinkers had an 18% less chance of dying from any cuase than non-drinkers or heavy drinkers.
2006-12-19 09:44:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all I think this is in the MEN's guide or something.
Seriously I really don't mind at all. Most guys have a hard day at work and they use this method to relax after a long day. After I am done at work I like to relax a little to before I start dinner and making lunches and putting out clothes for the next day.....etc.This is just his way of winding down.
It's not necessary but it helps.
2006-12-19 09:46:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let the guy do what he wants.
He works a long day at work and wants a couple of beers. He doesn't come home so you can nag him about it. If he doesn't get drunk and yell at you or get violent, or he's not out drinking beers at a club, you shouoldn't even care at all.
2006-12-19 09:43:14 · answer #6 · answered by Sgt. Pepper 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what his mood is, both with and without the beer. Try hiding the beer one evening and see how he reacts.
My wife has a couple of lite beers every evening. Since this is very moderate, it is not a medical problem. The greatest benefit, in my opinion, is that it's a tranquilizer for her hectic day, and keeps her mood smooth and on an even keel. I had one ex-wife who didn't drink at all and she made my life a living hell.
So, in my opinion, a couple of beers of her is just fine for me.
2006-12-19 09:57:04 · answer #7 · answered by goforgold98721 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The beers help him relax after a day's work. Since he does not get drunk and all, I don't see a problem. If he starts getting worse, seek help for him.
2006-12-19 09:42:11 · answer #8 · answered by capnemo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a problem unless it's a problem.
Lots of people drink to get rid of the anxieties of the day. If his drinking isn't hurting you, your children or him or your way or life, then let the man have his beer.
Don't make a problem where there isn't one.
2006-12-19 09:45:55 · answer #9 · answered by vicarious_notion 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband used to do that every day. I never had a problem with it. He is not getting drunk every day. He is just trying to relax after his hard day at work. If it does start to bother you or you are questioning why he does this, TALK to him. You may feel better and he may stop doing it so much.
2006-12-19 09:43:07 · answer #10 · answered by bb77blueeyes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋