What do you guys find more attractive in girls?
The shy, sensitive, sweet girl or the outspoken, loud, outgoing girl?
I would say I am more of the shy, sensitive, sweet type..at times I can be more outgoing, but for the most part I am more on the shy side...It seems like the sensitive person always has more to bring to the relationship, and keeps it exciting for their partner !
2006-12-19 09:32:17 · 12 answers · asked by sorry richard! ps :amanda 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your question is a little too black and white. There is a lot of gray you are missing in between. Every guy is different and has his own preferences, but here is a guideline:
If a guy is shy, he is more likely to respond to the outgoing type,(because he is unable to come out of his own shell) as long as she is not drawing unwanted attention to him. The outgoing girl is also willing to go in to his shell and draw him out if it is worth it. Talk to him and ask lots of questions. He'll gradually come out slowly.
If you are a shy girl, you are going to attract the confident arrogant type because he sees you as a challenge.This guy is usually an a**hole, but not always. The prettier you are, the more this type of guy is going to come after you. The more gorgeous, tall, and lean the guy is, the more he is used to getting what he wants because he has 10 other women constantly chasing him. So, be careful.
If you want the shy guy, you're going to have to go after him.
2006-12-19 09:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by SONG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the guy, and, as I am not a guy, I wouldn't know for sure. I, too, tend to be more on the quiet side, and at first I wished I was more outgoing. But I tend to think I come off more delicate and sweet being quiet. Also, shy people don't talk much, but when they do talk, it's something very profound or funny. Outspoken girls, it seems, come off being what-you-see-is-what-get. There's no mystery to them, and sometimes you can't shut them up. What kinds of guys are you trying to attract? It seems like the wild, loud guys go for the loud, wild girls, and the more sensitive guys go for the sensitive girls.
I have come to love being the shy girl, and I think you should too. Don't try to change for a boy.
2006-12-19 09:37:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say more shy and sensitive sometimes I hate to be around loud obnoxious women I can be a little outgoing without being loud.
2006-12-19 09:40:24 · answer #3 · answered by Junkyard DOG 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely say the shy, sensitive and sweet girl. It's hard to explain why, just something about em'. However, it is nice when they can let go once in a while, if nothing else when it's just the two of you.
2006-12-19 09:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by straightup 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My choice is the first one - shy, sensitive and sweet
2006-12-19 09:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by This, That & such 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loud outgoing girl isnt good especially if she like gets laid by every guy she meets (a.k.a. a whore lol)
too shy isnt too good either. if i had to choose i would choose the more good lookin one. if i had to choose from 2 equalyl hot girls in the 2 categories id probably go wit shy cuz its more interestin.
2006-12-19 09:36:00 · answer #6 · answered by Mr.Deeds 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Every guy is different. No matter what you want them to be attracted for you in the "long" run ... not just what draws you in to start speaking.
Have him see qualities that he'd admire forever and ever, not just for the 5 minutes before he says hello.
2006-12-19 09:35:33 · answer #7 · answered by Ash 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if u are what u say u r then i say thats the most attractive.. cuz ur not loud and abnoctious (sp?) but sweet and outgoing! its perfect!!!!
2006-12-19 09:35:08 · answer #8 · answered by nicoleaase 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shy
2006-12-19 09:34:00 · answer #9 · answered by Antonio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shy but a little boldness around people she's comfortable with
2006-12-19 09:34:54 · answer #10 · answered by Dark Helmet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋