me and my ex see eachotha eveywhere and my classes are by his so i'm forced 2 see him. i flirt with boyz around him, but i don't make it obvious. but wen we broke up he asked if we culd just be friendz. and now he thinks i act phony cuz i don't say anything 2 him. why doesn't he say anything 2 me? WELL I'M MOVING ON AND EVEN THOUGH I DON'T LIKE HIM THAT MUCH I STILL WANT HIM 2 FEEL JEALOUS. (WE BROKE UP WIT EACH OTHA) I THREW THE IDEA OF BREAKING UP ON THA TABLE AND HE AGREED. ANYWAYZ WAT SHULD I DO @ THIS POINT?
2006-12-19 09:26:41 · 16 answers · asked by Henrietta N 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep moving on!!!
But don't try to make him jealous, that's such a waste of time. Moving on means moving on from people too-so while you're moving on, why not leave the ex behind too and forget about if he's jealous or not?
2006-12-19 09:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being a couple means learning how to deal with those type of feelings. It shows that you are human and that you cared for someone.
Just remember you don't really run out of love. But it does get easier if you deal with your emotions and understand that they are there. Don't run away from them, but make sure you can control them. You don't want to be with some other guy just so that you can "show the ex" that you are over him. That's not the right reason for finding a soul mate!
My advice: get over guy number one first. Keep an eye out for the "right guy" or someone you can find happiness with.
2006-12-19 09:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by Ash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really think you should try to make him jealous? most likely it will start a jealousy fight between the two of you that could ruin it all, and be horrible for your friends to watch.
if you see him in the hallway just say hi and keep walking. it will give him no reason to call you phony. and if your flirting with some guys dont worry if he notices, he can notice what he wants and care about what he wants to care about
2006-12-19 09:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by gigglepie2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see where you are coming from. But really, is it so hard to write "girls" rather than "gurlz"? and boyz, and friendz, and anywayz, and shuld (there's only one more letter to add - o).
Well, back to your message. I say steer clear of him. If he wants you back then you have the upper hand. Just don't go crawling back to him, that would only degrade yourself... even more.
all the best.
2006-12-19 09:39:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats shady.
don't make him feel jealous cause if you want some kind of revenge, then you OBVIOUSLY havn't moved on.
just forget about him. don't talk to him, don't look at him, don't mention him or badmouth him etc. it will only give ou a bad name and make you seem unladylike. its sounds ridiculous but no guy wants to hear a badmouth a guy who could possibly be his friend.
just...move on. find a new guy you like, and flirt without wanting to make exbf jealous. you'll only hurt yourself in the end anyway when you see him w/ another whom he likes alot, cause he made you jealous w/o even trying.
2006-12-19 09:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still don't understand what the problem is. You see him with other girls and he sees you with other guys, so if your not together no more there is nothing to it, unless you still feel something for him and that is why you want to make him jealous.
2006-12-19 09:32:51 · answer #6 · answered by teresita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be friends with him, then just go up to him and ask him if he wants to see a movie with you as friends
2006-12-19 09:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by LÅÛ®ËÑ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl you got what you wanted, now build a bridge and get over it.
2006-12-19 09:29:22 · answer #8 · answered by saynhope 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You both need to grow up and move on.
2006-12-19 09:31:34 · answer #9 · answered by JJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From reading your spelling and grammar,looks like you need to be more concerned what that.
2006-12-19 09:30:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋