My man said his uncle who is a senior citizen talked to him about real personal things like what goes on in the bedroom and stuff. My guy didn't want to tell me what it was. We are both in our 30's. I don't know what brought on this conversation. My guy tells his uncle alot of things too. When we were going through ups and towns he confided in his uncle. I don't want him to discuss our private and intimate stuff with his uncle. Should I be worried? He said he has never talked to him about our intimate things. Do people talk to their relatives openly about intimate stuff?
2006-12-19 09:22:20 · 5 answers · asked by Lucy L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
many of them will be close to some relatives or friends so they share their experiences its quite normal
why r u worrying about that if u dont like all those talking and all
talk to your guy make him understand iam sure from next moment he will stop talking openly to his uncle or who ever that will be
2006-12-19 15:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think guys talk more about intimate stuff with friends and relatives then girls maybe (from my experience). I think that is due to a couple possible reasons. 1) Maybe they are insecure and want to know if they are doing things right. 2) Maybe they are not comfortable talking about those things with their woman as they may be offended by them. 3) Maybe they just want to know if they are normal (ie in a normal relationship...etc) I would not worry about it, however, I would share your concerns with him that you do not want him to get into too much details in these conversations with family and friends. Your private life details should stay that way....
2006-12-19 09:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by C. A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is something normal with relatives who developed an intimate relationship with each other. However, the details of course should not be revealed but only counselling should be sought in matters one has a problem with.
2006-12-19 16:39:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confident, many (if no longer maximum) women tell their close friends VERY very own techniques.. even very own techniques approximately their husbands. i in my view tell my superb (lady) pal greater advantageous than I tell my husband - it is not that i like my husband decrease than my friends, it particularly is purely that some conversations you could extremely purely have with different women. you're suitable to sense disillusioned, by using fact it is not a advantageous subject to your spouse to have accomplished, yet it particularly is just one thing that girls do often times and he or she actual did no longer say those issues with the point of injuring or embarrassing you. you will properly be mad at her for a quick time and tell her the way you sense, yet do no longer stay mad too long by using fact she did no longer mean to disillusioned you and in all possibility did no longer even understand what she'd accomplished until you grew to alter into indignant along with her. in case you have the different delicate themes you do no longer choose her to share along with her friends, enable her understand and he or she'll be sure to appreciate your privateness interior the destiny.
2016-10-18 12:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well Lucy, not all people talk openly to their senior people but i think they shd.. it is always gonna help u secure ur relationship.. and its gonna give him some knowledge only .. no harm in it.. dont feel shy... have confidence in ur guy...take care
2006-12-23 01:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by Deeps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋