alright so.. I went out with this guy and then broke up with him after two days honestly I didn't feel the same way about him well now he hates me. I did cheat on him but he doesnt know about any of that. But now he totally hates me. I understand that I hurt him but what should I do to make him not hate me anymore?
2006-12-19 09:06:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've done quite enough. Leave him alone.
2006-12-19 09:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing you can do. You broke up with him. Even if that isn't a reason to hate you, well then maybe he does know that you cheated. Just let it go, and if you see him, just say hi. You can't control how he feels about you, but You can control how you feel about the situation. You cheated you were wrong, let it go.
2006-12-19 09:10:06 · answer #2 · answered by mizbehavingirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look...you have to get use to this if you're gonna kick a guy to the curb. You're not happy. So, he'll get over it. Everyone in this world doesn't have to like you. Learn a lesson and move on and let him deal with his own feelings and problems. Godloveya.
2006-12-19 09:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is give him time, maybe a month or so, let things calm down, and then maybe call him and ask if you could go out for a coffee as friends?
2006-12-19 09:09:10 · answer #4 · answered by Apricot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone and move on. QUIT CHEATING. You should like yourself more than that, not to mention what you could catch. Some things don't show up for several months.
2006-12-19 09:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. Well unfortunately, guys hold grudges for awhile at times. Did you explain the whole situation to him, or basically break it off with no explanation? He'll probably be cold for awhile, and when he cools down, that may be your chance to talk to him.
2006-12-19 09:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by *-whitz-* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound young, i dont think it is considered cheating if you dont like the guy and youve only been together for two days. explain to him how you feel, and if he still is mad at you there is nothing more you can do.
2006-12-19 09:10:34 · answer #7 · answered by FranklinF rules the world 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him as much time as he needs and hopefully he can get over it, he's probably hurting right now and needs some time.
2006-12-19 09:13:52 · answer #8 · answered by cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should be worrying about him "hating you" because you cheated on him and obviously don't care that much about him.
2006-12-19 09:08:48 · answer #9 · answered by kornflake06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it depends on if u still want 2 b friends with him. he just hates u cuz u dumped him. if he hates u, dont stress abut it. it doesnt matter if one guy doesnt like ya. u'll find another.
2006-12-19 09:09:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell why you broke up with him maybe he feels like he has a right to know why and hayes you for it. and whn you tell him he will under stand and move on i hope. i hope it works out for you two
2006-12-19 09:10:01 · answer #11 · answered by kayia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋