Okay....I have cold feet. Is that really normal??? Is it normal to not ALWAYS have an attraction to your partner? Is it normal to get worried because you don't have the same kinda butterflies you had with an ex? I know I love him, and I can see spending the rest of my life with him.....I am just scared and wondering if I should really worry or not?
2006-12-19 08:59:15 · 3 answers · asked by ♥ sweet-n-low ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
As long as you TRULY love him.... you can see a wonderful future together, that's all that matters. Buy the book 'Before You Say I Do' it has questions you and your fiance can answer together to make sure ya'll are right for each other. Good Luck!
2006-12-19 09:11:39 · answer #1 · answered by *Just Married* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask you this can you imagine having to spend every day of your life without him? If not then everything you are feeling is normal. When I met my husband it was honestly love at first sight and I didn't believe that was possible. Our relationship was like a whirl wind and everything he did made my feet tingle and my heart race. Even the proposal and engagement ring gave me butterflies, as the wedding got closer I started having doubts then I thought "am I marrying him because I can live with him or am I marrying him because i don't want to live without him" The only other man that ever made me feel the way my husband does was my first true love who I was engaged to but he was tragically killed just weeks before our wedding in a car accident but I believe and ex is an ex for a reason if your having doubts about anything think hard before you make such a huge decision
2006-12-19 17:35:38 · answer #2 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have ANY doubts, please, please, please explore your feelings with a counselor.
2006-12-19 17:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by SlapHappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋