ok, there was this girl that would always pick on me in junior high school, she used to take my lunch money from me. now that iam a grown woman i want to beat her a s s. i saw her at a mall after 15 yrs and she reconized me, so when she came up to me. i started laughing,, can u believe she asked me for 5 bucks, so i told her to get a life and job..she was looking nasty and had 3 kids with her so i didn't want to curse her down.. she gave me her number and told me to call her. but i hate this beotch, i want to beat her because she made my life misable, what should i do, call her and beat her butt or let by gones be by gones...
2006-12-19 08:57:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
iam a grown woman of 32 yrs old, hows that juvenille
2006-12-19 09:02:02 · update #1
Well I understand you completely, now since you are a grown woman mind you, you can get arrested for assault so for that reason I would say don't do it. She has kids and you wouldn't want to demean there mother in front of them so I would say don't do it. BUT if I was in your situation I would beat the livin $hit outta of her and take all of HER money out of her purse maybe even a credit card or two(LOL). So for the fact that it would make you extremely happy I would say go right ahead beat the livin daylgihts outta her and settle the score!!
2006-12-19 09:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by Mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, the same attitudes and conditions that likely made her someone who needed to bully others as a child have resulted in the condition you see her in today--obviously not doing well. If you must have revenge, isn't that revenge enough?
Why not write her a letter and express to her what your feelings are, wish her well, and let it go? The answer is in your very own question. It was 15 years ago, and you are adults now. Painful as it may be, it's time to grow up.
2006-12-19 17:02:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately people get bullied at school, this is part of growing up. you obviously still have issues about it that you need to deal with because after 15 years you should be over it. karma has punished this girl and by focusing on how much you want to beat her up you are only hurting yourself. if you did beat her would you really be satisfied? as the saying goes the best revenge is living well. while it's understandable that you want to get revenge i think you already have.
2006-12-19 17:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose the number and get on with your life. Don't waste your life over what was. She sure ain't worth the beating or the time it takes to do it. You don't need the legal hassles and you sure don't need her in your life. Let it go and move on.
2006-12-19 17:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have anger issues. Just let it go. Maybe her childhood was no peaches and cream either. Life makes certain people, which one are you? If you feel your life ended up better than hers than be thankful. You should forgive her but you do not have to be friends.
2006-12-19 17:06:50 · answer #5 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a firm believer in that whole what goes around comes around thing. You should let it go and let karma take care of this for you. From what you wrote about her, it seems to me, life has not been kind.
2006-12-19 17:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by goodhrtdgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be smart to realize that to "beat her a**" would be called assault and battery. Worth getting arrest over? She made your life miserable over a decade ago-- what's happened since then is your own doing.
2006-12-19 17:16:13 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 15 years, I would just drop the grudge and move on. You have more important things to worry about, seriously.
2006-12-19 17:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by Playa Hata 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As you know, her life sucks. Trash the number, she's not worth your time of day. Maybe she'll resort to robbery since she needs money so bad, it's not beneath her to do something like that, right?
2006-12-19 17:01:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This juvenile behavior has what to do with Singles & Dating???
2006-12-19 17:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋