i am dealing with someone that i dont really like, i just like having sex with him. he thinks that we are together, but i dont want to be with him like that. should i just let go or what.
2006-12-19 08:40:37 · 14 answers · asked by TE TE 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have to be honest with him. I always think how would i feel if someone was doing this to me. It will be better than waiting untill it goes really bad!
2006-12-19 08:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by erica c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there. look, you're going to have to be honest. you wouldn't want anyone to string you along so don't do that to him. be honest and let him know where he stands with you in your life. let him know that you care about him and he's a great person but you don't want to be in a relationship right now. maybe you can keep what you have, it's called being buddies, but don't do it with a lie. it's not worth the hassle and it's wrong to use someone like that. and if you dislike him that much then just let go.
2006-12-19 16:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by NoDeal21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stringing him along is a ****** up thing to do. Anyways stop messing with him and end it if you don't like him and then you could ask if he wants to be friends with benefits if you want to bang him still... but he that might piss him off. Or he could really like it depends on the guy i suppose.
2006-12-19 16:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
BE HONEST with him. Tell him that you enjoy being with him physically, but that you don't see potential for a real relationship. Let him choose if he wants to sex buddies, or break it off completely.
2006-12-19 16:43:23 · answer #4 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be honest with that person, because if you are not they could really fall very hard for You, then You could wind up in trouble, depending how angry he could possibly get for leading him on and not telling the truth. therefor You could wind up in a very difficult situation worse then the one you are in now.
2006-12-19 16:46:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go, you are playing with his head, girl don't you watch the news ? people get killed over **** like that and I love almost everyone and I don't want you to get hurt for no reason. so do what's right.
2006-12-19 16:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by twiggy_vienna_love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea you should, you cant spend time with the person you dont have feeling to.
And if you were in thei place would you feel good if that person was using you only because he/she likes to have sex with you.
Thats not right!
2006-12-19 16:45:15 · answer #7 · answered by AnnaC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats wrong god made you two be married to someone you care about and have children with. Have morals lady.
2006-12-19 16:43:40 · answer #8 · answered by nonestopchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that it is just sex and nothing else. Then get out, quickly.
2006-12-19 16:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing stop having sex with him then tell him its over thats not that hard
2006-12-19 16:43:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋