ok i was at a party and i wasn't dancing so thie guy pulled me and i danced with him. this other guy came and asked him i liked his cousin and i asked him who was his cousin he said the guy i was dancin wit i told him he was cool but i didn't know him but later in the night i found out that both guys was tryin to get with me competin or what not. the guy that i danced with we talk on the phone and his cousin calls me tryin to spit game so should i tell both to stop callin or to tell both of them that we just need to be friends or what help me out
2006-12-19 08:38:29 · 17 answers · asked by Makay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should not choose either of the two.
You should leave them both alone.
You already know you were the prize in competition, so unless you like that sort of stuff you know what to do.
2006-12-19 08:42:48 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4GET ABOUT THE BOTH OF THEM!!! U already know the deal, and said it best: it's about the competition. 4 all you know they may have some sort of bet going on about who can get you 1st, if you know what I mean. Guys sometimes do stupid things like that. But seriously what other reason would two cousins have to go after the same girl. If nothing else it will create some tension between them or an awkwardness if you were to hook up with one and not the other if they genuinely liked you. Leave them both alone and find a guy who's not apart of the family. All the best.
2006-12-19 16:46:20 · answer #2 · answered by TRUTH HURTZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look in your heart - do you want to be friends with one or both of these guys? Do you like one of them as a boyfriend? If neither ever called again, would it bother you? Sounds like they are both playing games with you. Do what you feel is best for you.
2006-12-19 16:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would personaly just be friends withthem or either stop talking to them. They were only doing it for compitetion no real feelings involved. Some guys do things like this to see who can "score" first. Just let it go.
2006-12-19 16:46:13 · answer #4 · answered by Shampaine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would really not waste my time on either of them. It really sounds like they are just trying to see who gets you first. If I was you I would tell them both that you are not interested in them and that you are talking to someone else.
2006-12-19 16:43:32 · answer #5 · answered by KK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much drama, I'd drop them both, it sounds like they have some sort of a bet going on or something...
2006-12-19 16:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by dramatic_miss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell both to stop callin they are trying to play you
2006-12-19 16:42:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bang um both... Then see who has more money and go with that guy.
2006-12-19 16:40:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget both of them.
2006-12-19 16:41:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the one u like
2006-12-19 16:42:30 · answer #10 · answered by Nicole R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋