One of the reasons in which he broke up with me. Was for the fact that he thought our relationship was based on sex and we didn't have a relationship. But, is it wrong for the fact that when I was around him that I wanted to be intimate with him. We already worked together. So we saw each other all the time and we would talk at least once a day on the phone. Now when did guys start caring when a girl wanted to be with too much intimately? But, really my main question. Does that seem bad or normal for a young 20 year old?
2006-12-19 08:28:23 · 9 answers · asked by kitty kitty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Every man is different. If all you ever did when you where alone was have sex maybe he was right! You have to be friends to have a lasting relationship! The other way to look at it is maybe that is all he wanted from you in the first place. 20 year old men are very confussing and they mature way slower then a girl of the same age!
Would need more details to answer honestly. Like how long had you been dating, what else did you do just the two of you, where you friends before you jumped into bed?? Question is just to open to give a really good answer
2006-12-19 08:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to want to be intimate, but there are other things that you can do. If your intimate every time your not in the office together, then your relationship becomes based solely on sex. This will not take you very far.
2006-12-19 16:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong feeling the attraction you have towards him, but maybe he wanted something more on a "intimate" level than a sexual level. as in what you consider "intimate" may not be his idea. he may think "intimate" as in intellectual...talking more, doin more things together, etc and you seem to think "intimate" as more of physical/sexual
those are 2 different things...so you need to think if what you were feeling and/or thinking was more on a sexual level of intimacy or a intellectual level of intimacy...you can have both but they usually balance each other.
2006-12-19 16:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was probably the best way that he found to break up with you. It really seems like an excuse he used to let you down easy. If he really wanted to be with you he would have discussed the "sex only" issue with you. Move on there are better fish in the sea!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-19 16:35:36 · answer #4 · answered by shathediva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he got what he wanted from you and is using that as an excuse. what he said is complete and utter b.s. what man do know breaks it off completely because of too much sex? he was out for what he could get and was looking for a way out. so he put it on you. jeez, what a louse. leave him alone and find someone else.
2006-12-19 16:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by NoDeal21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It si just mormal but he isn't he must be a fag. I would love a chance at making it with you, I know we can do it all the time and I don't complain. IM me and I will tell you what I can do to you
2006-12-19 16:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he felt smothered. everyone needs space. even guys. maybe he met someone else.
2006-12-19 16:34:26 · answer #7 · answered by sofiedriskell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh.... he didnt want to have sex? can you give me his number? lol
but in all honesty maybe you need to give him his space.
2006-12-19 16:31:01 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NORMAL, HE ONLY WANTED U FOR SEX. OPEN UR EYES
2006-12-19 16:30:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋