ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .
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21 minutes ago
when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone
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49 minutes ago
this is her latest message
hey (name)!! hows it goin? boy, youve sure been hard to get a hold of lately! i was thinkin about stoppin by sometime, so unless i hear otherwise from you ill see you soooon!! k byeee!!
<3 (name)
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2 days ago
i dont want to know what u people think i should do . .. just want to know what u think she is thinking
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25 minutes ago
this is the latest message i just got tonight
heyyyyyyy (name)....are you done not talking to me yet?? just wonderin if you wanted to hang out sometime or atleast come visit and see my house!! well please get back to me and let me know!! :)
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19 minutes ago
she just sent me another email saying that she wants me to come to her birthday party . .. now why would she want me to come if he is going to be there . . . it would only cause trouble and be really awkward on top of that
2006-12-19 08:28:04 · 3 answers · asked by cbs2904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmm interesting situation...maybe she reliezes you were a better bf, and she want to see if your still interestied in her before she dumps the other guy and go for you again...thats just a thought im not quite sure. id forget about her though, if she just dumps you to go for other guys ...thats not a good enough reason for dumping someone if you truely love them. ...good luck! :)
2006-12-19 08:39:40 · answer #1 · answered by NK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so this is what i gathered, mind you i'm not a mind reader.
So anyways, she wants her cake and eat it too. She obviously misses you and regrets breaking up with you. If she is still with this guy and being that way with you then she is obviously scared of being alone and holding onto him until she gets you back. having said that, no matter how you think you feel about her cut her off, someone who is worthwhile will rock up when you least expect it.
2006-12-19 16:43:11 · answer #2 · answered by hotterthansnot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is keeping you on the back burner my friend! Just in case this one doesn't work out. Ball is in your court...ask her flat out why is she still contacting you and what are her intentions or just ignore her in the hopes she will give up. But yah she's clinging. Don't take the bait!
2006-12-19 16:40:06 · answer #3 · answered by GOLDIE3769 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋