If your girlfriend or boyfriend never moves from the computer to the telephone or in-person real life contact, do you consider it cheating if she or he occasionally enjoys going into online chat rooms and flirt?
(remember -- it never moves from online to on-phone or in-person)
2006-12-19 08:25:20 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone flirts whether they intend to or not. It's really not something that can be controlled. I think it needs to be kept within a certain limit if you are in a relationship with someone, but I wouldn't classify it as cheating. If you become emotionally involved with the person and start to care about them more than your significant other, then you have problems, but flirting is not cheating. If you or your girlfriend has a problem with it, then you need to sit and talk things over together to see where you think the line should be drawn. Hope this helps!
2006-12-19 10:13:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't consider flirting cheating. Esspecially if it never moves higher than JUST flirting. Flirting is just something that some people think of as fun!
So no, doing that is NOT cheating!!
Even though I dont do that kinda stuff,,,,,,,still!
Good Luck and Happy Holidays!
2006-12-19 08:30:23 · answer #2 · answered by Courtney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my point of view cheating is when a person
meets up with someone ...kisses or has sex
**however if this person is keeping secrets
that involve someone or is talking to someone
that your unaware of is concedred a disrepect
for your partner if theres flirting playing a role
if your ok with your partner chatting i dont see
a problem as for me i'd be pretty upset because
i'd rather have my man invest his time doing more
productive things ...like spending time with me, cleaning,
enjoying hobbies and so on.
2006-12-19 08:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by CALI GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Cheating" is defined by your Significant Other, and no one else. Only I can decide if my wife's behavior makes me feel cheated, and only your SO can make that decision for themselves.
I can't tell you how my actions make you feel.
If you want to know if any action is considered "cheating," ask the only person who can tell you.
Some couples don't consider ANY activity "cheating," as they have "open relationships." Some people consider ANY non-professional contact as cheating.
In my own instance - my wife says that "on-line" activity does not count as cheating. However, meeting "on-line" contacts to continue such "activity" certainly crosses a line.
2006-12-19 08:31:10 · answer #4 · answered by jbtascam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have intense matters together with your girlfriends previous, I comprehend that, yet dishonest isn't the respond. you're able to launch the destructive emotions you have approximately her previous, 5 adult adult males isn't lots, you likely won't discover yet another lady pal with a variety that low. She additionally wasn't with you on the time so what she did had not something to do with you. She became in relationships with those adult adult males, she did not comprehend that the relationships have been going to end so why does not she be intimate with them? I under no circumstances exhibit my "variety" (how many i've got been with) to my boyfriends and that i under no circumstances ask approximately theirs, it extremely is undesirable to a relationship to comprehend those information (you're an intense occasion of this). you're thinking that it will stability each and each others "wrongs" out in case you cheat on her? you're sooo incorrect!! what she did became not incorrect, it became what she felt became perfect on the time, in simple terms in view which you disapprove of it and are available to a selection her for it does not make it incorrect. dishonest is incorrect, it extremely is a few thing you're doing directly to her (not some thing on your previous which could dissatisfied her) you certainly could take a deep breath and comprehend that your perspectives are thoroughly mixed up. What she did became not incorrect, what you're making plans to do (dishonest) is rather incorrect!
2016-12-30 16:09:37 · answer #5 · answered by mccloy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off flirting with someone when you have a girlfriend/boyfriend is soo cheating even if it's online but talking to someone online that isn't your boyfriend/girlfriend without flirting isn't cheating it's called having a life and friends.
2006-12-19 08:29:48 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer depends on how you feel about it. If you do not like it, it is cheating. If you are ok with it, it is not cheating. Unfortunately there is no real answer so I would suggest talking about it and keeping direct, open communication at all times.
2006-12-19 08:29:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating derives from sexual attraction or desire, even if that desire is merely a selfish need for attention, on line or in person.
It still is a distraction, and disloyalty to the one you have dedicated yourself too. Perhaps, you need to look more closely at yourself, and why you need such attention. There...is where the true problem lies.
Truthfully, if you had to ask if it's cheating, then you know in your heart...it probably is.
2006-12-19 08:35:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, its not exactly cheating to be just flirting even if its just over the internet, though if you are in a serious releationship with someone and you care about them, i wouldn't do it, you should just stick to the person you are with and leave it at that...
2006-12-19 08:28:12 · answer #9 · answered by Justin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel that it's inappropriate for your boyfriend/girlfriend to be flirting online or in person or whatever, then yes, it is cheating. but this is something you need to relate to them and perhaps you can come to a compromise. communication is key.
2006-12-19 08:28:27 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋