2006-12-19 08:04:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find out which one loves you more and then your heart will tell ya what to do!
2006-12-19 08:07:46 · answer #1 · answered by Steph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember why and how your relationship ended with your ex-boyfriend.
Also try look at what made you attracted to your new boyfriend. then ask yourself: Is your past relationship worth giving up on something new? After all you've already been there and done that with your ex, literally. Is it really worth pondering over? Is it worth sabotaging your current relationship?
Be honest with yourself. Find out what it is that you really want and be honest with your current boyfriend, let him know what is going on.
Personally, I'd take my chances with the new relationship, see where it goes. It could turn out to be and even more beautiful thing than it is at the moment. You never know unless you give it a try. If it doesn't work out and you still feel for the x then and there's a chance of you two getting back together then at that point, go for it. I really wouldn't advise ending a new relationship for the familiarity of an old one.
After all you may only feel you are in love with the ex because you are used to him and what was. You may not be in love with him after all, only scared of what could be and thus are hanging on to ideas of the past.
2006-12-19 16:22:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will be stuck in this position for a long time if you don't think about what you really want, sorry but you can't the both of them. Something i learned myself, you will have to let go of that ex, if he's an ex why are you still loving him let past be past and move on with your life. If you're still in love with your ex you are not ready for a new boyfriend you're going to hurt him and yourself. I'd probably tell my boyfriend i needed a break and take that time to see whether i should take 10 steps back rather than 10 forward, think about it.
2006-12-19 16:12:52 · answer #3 · answered by kimmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure how old you are but I suspect you are under 30.
The major problem women in the USA have is this overwhelming need to be in a relationship.
I know a woman who fought with her boyfriend and within an hour was trying to hook-up with a new guy. I am positive she isn't the only one!
I went 10 years without a date after my divorce (too busy with college, work and raising a toddler alone). All of my women friends kept trying to "set me up". They felt I had to be unhappy because I didn't have a man in my life.
Again, this overwhelming need, or is it pressure, to be in a relationship.
I think you need to take a break from both men and think about yourself and your needs. If it's meant to be, it will happen.
I'm happily married now and NEVER went looking for a man!
2006-12-19 16:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by maj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a sign that whatever reason made you part was not good enuf.It`s only that you din`t take enuf time to think about it and give it a second chance.Know where you heart lies and take the necessary WISE step.Your ex might not be in luv with you in turn or maybe he`s on his way to avenge for you having left him.Take caution!!
2006-12-19 16:23:22 · answer #5 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello and how are you doing? My name is Erick and I have a simple answer if you are willing to here. First of all you should be lead by God, and second one should always -always follow their heart. I left a wife and child for the Love of my life because to stay in a relationship just for children or it is the right thing to do. Love will turn to hate in a very short time. I was taught by experience.
2006-12-19 16:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by Erick R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with the new guy.
The thing is, no matter what you do, there will always be a little dying ember of what used to be a flame for someone else.
Stay with the new guy for awhile, and see how it rolls, and dont do anything to provoke your feelings to go back to the ex.
2006-12-19 16:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that same problem, except mine was with my gf. What i did, was i looked at which one i liked better. It ended that i liked my new girlfriend better. I hope you make a good decision. You might want to try talking to your bf a little more to see if he really listens to you and cares about you just as much as your ex does or did. Good luck!
2006-12-19 16:12:28 · answer #8 · answered by Ryan M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
separate your emotions. leave yout ex-bf in the past and focus on a new positive relationship. don't let past relationships drag you down in the present because you won't enjoy the future. My Yoga instructor says... the past is to the left, the future is to the right, and the NOW in your center. Enjoy the NOW.
2006-12-19 16:09:58 · answer #9 · answered by TracyBee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over the old one and work on your relationship with the new one...theres got to be a reason hes your ex not your current!
2006-12-19 16:06:18 · answer #10 · answered by merrittmom03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a decision between the two and just leave the other person alone. Don't string anyone along
2006-12-19 16:12:00 · answer #11 · answered by fiestylady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋