I need to know what he's up to now. I suspect maybe there's another girl in his life, but I need to know the signs.
2006-12-19 08:02:39 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Coming home late. His form of dress improves. He loses weight. He clicks off messages on the computer when you come into the room. His mobile phone bill has increased, and if it is pre-paid then he goes through his credit very quickly. He is not as interested in sex with you anymore. He accuses you of being paranoid and starts arguments, so he can storm out of the house and blame you. He doesnt come home at all. Poor excuses like the car didnt start, or the battery was flat, flat tyre, motor blew up. He is spending more money than usual. The list is long, but usually the biggest sign you will ever get is your gut feeling.
I feel so sorry you are going through this, it is a horrible time for anyone to go through. You would be feeling sick right now, but the sooner you find out what or if he is doing the sooner you can deal. At the moment you only have suspicions, and that is sometimes worse than knowing. At least when you have the truth, you can work out a plan of action. Without the truth you will always be guessing and making yourself miserable in the process.
I wish you all the very best.
2006-12-19 08:12:20 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one time I used to be in a courting, I did not however that is due to the fact I ended the connection speedily, I simply did not think correct being tied down. However, I have flirted with many folks at the same time, which I wager is all the way down to good fortune. I'd frequently nonetheless flirt round in a courting, however hiya, I'm now not able for some thing critical simply but, so I may not get into one.
2016-09-03 16:38:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You suspecting he has another girl in his life is the 1st sign..that he is cheating....if he acts diferently about things ...If he seems withdrawn from you.....If he act funny around you or secretive around you.....When they cheat they change completely and blame you for the change...Check his phone or the phone bill for diferent numbers...you dont recognize and call them all back to verify But in all true honestly you suspecting is the 1st sign ...This is called woman intuition and 99.9 percent of the time they are right
2006-12-19 08:07:04 · answer #3 · answered by melanni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sex life changes, or is non-existent.
He walks always from you when his cell-phone rings (or home phone).
He gets very defensive if you ask him about possibly cheating.
All of a sudden, he has less time for you.
He doesn't call you as much.
He makes plans with you and cancels often.
He doesn't include you in plans as often as he used to.
He can only see you during "certain times of the week".
Well, those are only a few, but they are some good ones to start. I've been there, I never want to go back either. I just wish I'd of listened to my gut feeling more from the start.
Good luck to you!
2006-12-19 08:07:37 · answer #4 · answered by Singthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a lot that can tell you if he is cheating, if he dosen't call, isn't around, wants to be seen with you in public or public places, hides things all the time. You just need to talk and get the truth no matter what. This is the only way that you will know.
2006-12-19 08:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by cowgirl! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how clever his is. Some are really good at hiding an affair!! Go on your woman's intuition...if you think he's up to something, then he probably is, you probably saw some signs but you've been ignoring them because you don't want to believe he could possibly do that to you!
My ex. changed is cologne after 9 years. I found that weird, so I started to look through his pockets, and found a crumpled up phone message from work with a girl's number on it. I called it. Her mother answered. I pretended to be my husband's employer. She told me he had just been there last night visiting her daughter. I changed the locks on our door.
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2006-12-19 08:18:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, if you are already suspect another girl, then here we go...
Your gut feeling is one of the signs..
Any other signs are: lesser phone calls, being secretive, being attentive to other girl, talking about one particular girl frequently, being penny pinching towards you, caught in lies, being sarcastic and inconsiderate of your feelings, seems to be distant and cold.. etc
Trust me, I've been there :-)
Good luck..
2006-12-19 08:15:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one he always makes excuse that he can't be around you because something is happening, HE will be with you and act strangely, also he will make more calls or get more calls and whenyou ask him who it was all he will say it's just a guy I know, or it's just a friend. ALSo if you seem him talking with a girl and ask him about it he will say I was giving directions or she is what's his name's cousin. and can never look at you straight inthe eye. If you need to chat more or ask me anything just IM me anytime
2006-12-19 08:11:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know!!!!!!!!!! Lesson .1 if he starts acting really strange like doing are saying things he would never do are say. Lesson.2 If he starts spending less and less time with you. .3 to see with your own eyes you need proof you need to see if its true are just go with your first mind
2006-12-19 08:11:37 · answer #9 · answered by portia b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wont give u much calls.
he will be either cold towards u or over excited...cold because he cant stand u anymore n excited to cover secret.
when u talk he will not look at u much n sometimes he will get impatient.
he will be very forgetful. n will disobey important dates.
when u r around, he will take his cellphone to the other room for talking.
2006-12-19 08:09:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋