ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .
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21 minutes ago
when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone
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49 minutes ago
this is her latest message
hey (name)!! hows it goin? boy, youve sure been hard to get a hold of lately! i was thinkin about stoppin by sometime, so unless i hear otherwise from you ill see you soooon!! k byeee!!
<3 (name)
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2 days ago
i dont want to know what u people think i should do . .. just want to know what u think she is thinking
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25 minutes ago
this is the latest message i just got tonight
heyyyyyyy (name)....are you done not talking to me yet?? just wonderin if you wanted to hang out sometime or atleast come visit and see my house!! well please get back to me and let me know!! :)
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19 minutes ago
she just sent me another email saying that she wants me to come to her birthday party . .. now why would she want me to come if he is going to be there . . . it would only cause trouble and be really awkward on top of that
2006-12-19 07:45:42 · 3 answers · asked by cbs2904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my opinion....stop ignoring her and explain to her how you feel...just like you did here. she probly thinks you can still be friends somehow and that whatever friction you have with this other guy could be fixed or overlooked. she could also be hoping that if she keeps in contact with you and the other guy doesn't work out then she will have you still....just tell her you cant be friends with her to stop contacting you
2006-12-19 07:54:07 · answer #1 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wants to play you off each other or wants to keep sweet with you in case her latest relationship fails.
2006-12-19 15:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by beautiful_purity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I am really confused. She is so weird!
2006-12-19 15:56:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋