If you had broken up with a girl by email. After the first email. Would their be a need to send another or would you leave it alone. I was just broken up with by email. Which I have gotten over with. But, then my ex sent me another about why he was upset with me and somewhat blaming me for the fact of why we cannot be friends. That us sleeping together had changed things. Now is it common for him to be jealous since he broke up with me. If I was to go out with another guy after a couple of days after the fact. Or, is itt wrong of me to want to get on with my life so soon after he broke up with me?
2006-12-19 07:37:26 · 21 answers · asked by kitty kitty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds to me that the guy really didn't want to break up with you, 100% anyways. the reason he sends a follow up message to you is not as much for u, as it is for him...
hes trying to justify the reason he broke up, to make himself feel better. he's probably really confused about whats going on, and although it seems like he doesnt want to be with you anymore, it looks like he still has feelings.
the best thing to do is to stop all the email fuss, and just sit down with him in person. the fact that he broke up with you over an email shows that hes too scared to face you about this cuz he knows he has no good excuse of ending the relationship.
2006-12-19 07:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by J Balla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he broke upwith you by email then honestly he didn't care about you anyway he just wasn't man enough to tell you face up that is the act of a coward you don't need him get real.you were just a step along the way.move on with your life thats what guys says when they want you to think they care that way they might have a chance to come around when ever they want knowing that your still there waitting. move on go girl.
2006-12-19 15:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by Willie F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all your ex is pussy for breaking up with you though email, i mean he should be a man and face you, so u should feel better you just got out of a relationship with a lil girl, and if you loved him than i think u shoulda taken more time to yourself b4 u move on cuz than the new would only be a rebound, but if u dint love him than please moving on should be a breez, now u could date some real guys that wont break up with u with an email.
2006-12-19 16:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kitty Kitty...it is not wrong to move on. First, he can't break up with you in person, so he shoots you an email. That's wrong. Second, it appears he may be regretting his decision and sent you a second email to gauge how upset you are. I say move on and find another guy.
2006-12-19 15:42:17 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never break up with a girl by email. Thats worst than doing it over the phone.
2006-12-19 15:39:41 · answer #5 · answered by DAMON 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. If he broke up with you through e-mail then it means sh*t. Just goes to show that he couldn't face you and so he chickened out and did it va e-mail. No its not wrong, he's just probably upset with himself. Although moving along that fast is uncommon where I live.
2006-12-19 15:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say its wrong for you to want to move on. And he probably will be jealous. It's just one of those funny side effects of relationships, even tho it's over sometimes people still act jealous.
2006-12-19 15:40:27 · answer #7 · answered by Patrick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Using the internet to break up is so stupid anyway. Why don't you pick up the phone and ask him what the problem is. You must just like the drama.
2006-12-19 15:42:51 · answer #8 · answered by bridetobebrandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, first, you do not break up with someone through E-mail.
Second, He is hoping that you will beg him to stay with you.
Third, Only you can decide when you are ready to try again for love or sex, whichever it is you are looking for. Good Luck,
2006-12-19 15:42:35 · answer #9 · answered by Dennis D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should def. get over it and move on!!! he is mad because your not showing more emotion about the fact. He sounds like he wanted you to beg for him back, and since that didnt happen, he is being alittle B*TCH about things! You go ahead and do your thing, its his fault that yall aint together!
2006-12-19 15:43:06 · answer #10 · answered by smitty4626 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋