My exgirlfriend and broke up a few years ago and we remained friends but recently we were hanging out at my place and we ended up having sex and knew it was a mistake and said we shouldn't let it happen again.well just last night at was at home and she come over wearing nothing but an overcoat and we ended up having sex and i'm not sure whether she wants to get back together with me or she is just plain horny and right now she is evading the question any suggetions on how to clear this mess up
2006-12-19 07:35:31 · 24 answers · asked by gregg98133 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unless she says that she wants to get back together...just ENJOY!
2006-12-19 07:38:18 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you break up over a few years ago? Do you see a pattern here? The question is - what do YOU want? If what you want isn't what she wants, then you have to a decision to make. You can let it rock on until the sex no longer holds its same sizzle, and break up again, or you can figure out what it is you want, and go from there. If only sex is what you will settle for, sounds as if you have a partner, for at least a little while. If you want more, then look elsewhere. She's not the one for you.
2006-12-19 15:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by Janice Merle L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah,you unimaginative liar.No girl will visit you wearing nothing but an overcoat.Does she live in the next door apartment?Or did she take the subway..with 2 transfers and then walk 7 blocks,up 5 flight of stairs, at night, to get to you.
They will do that for George Clooney.
2006-12-19 15:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's confused, and your constantly jumping into the sack with her isn't helping her.
You really need to stop with the "alone together" time until she gets her head on straight, because whatever the reasons you broke up, you can be sure they'll surface again if you "get back together."
(Yeah, I know - what guy says "no" to sex? I'd say the same kind of guy who cares if you're "getting back together" or not.)
2006-12-19 15:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by jbtascam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's amazing to see how many people assume sex is love! That is just not true. (for lots of people, anyway)
You are a convienent and willing piece of ***. If that is ok with you, then enjoy! If sex IS love to you, then put a stop to it. You'll only get hurt. If she wanted to get back together, she'd say so.
2006-12-19 15:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by sassy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with girls its diffrent, you just dont get horny, you have to have some kind of feeling towards that person, Im not saying all girls but most...When I broke up wth my ex we still had sex after the break up....like for 5-6 months...i guess cause feelings were still fresh..he was the first guy I had ever been with so i loved him a lot....than he avoided me for 4 months and I ended up meeting someone new and falling in love....than that relationship went down hill and I ran back to him after 6 months for "comfort" as selfish as it sounds....
He tried to have sex with me but I couldnt get myself to do it. I didnt love him, I didnt hve feelings like that for him anymore...it had been so long i felt like he had become a stranger to me.......I told him....so maybe she loves you?...or maybe shes just really horny..LOL
2006-12-19 15:43:01 · answer #6 · answered by mariam_blah2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just horny, and you are available. Sorry dude. You are a friend with benefits. Learn to enjoy the benefit for now.
2006-12-19 15:38:28 · answer #7 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ex sex? Don't go there!! Okay, it's too late now, but you need to stop now, unless you want to get back to together. Having sex is sending a message that you're still interested (duh), unless you both CLEARLY communicate that this is nothing more than a casual relationship. She could be trying to get back with you... make sure you're using protection!
2006-12-19 15:39:19 · answer #8 · answered by Deborah C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that unless she says otherwise, you assume this to be a sex only relationship, a "friends with benifits" arrangement. Tell her that under those terms, you intend to continue dating, and that if she has any problems with this arrangement, she needs to speak up and clarify exactly what she intends.
2006-12-19 15:48:07 · answer #9 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be the relation ship wasn't good enough to survive ,but the sex was good anyways and if both of you are single right now way not?if you are not sure of her intentions just sit down and talk to her .
2006-12-19 15:41:25 · answer #10 · answered by realistic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋