i cheated on him with someone he knew, i know i was wrong and i apologized over n over, he haven't except me back and it may not seem that i care about him but i do love him all i need is another chance. i just need other opinions!
2006-12-19 07:17:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop begging him and tell him that you know you screwed up and you need another chance then dont call him until he calls you.
2006-12-19 07:22:59 · answer #1 · answered by buckeyes1125 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hm...I cheated on my ex about a year ago around this time. He was my first love, my first everything.....we had been together for a year than things got bad between us. He never trusted me, even though I was good to him...he had been cheated on before and had "trust" issues...but he told me all the other girls were hoes that he was with....
He was my first and he thought that I would never cheat b.c he was my first...and so did I...I never thought I would do something like that....but yet he still had doubts and was always on my case.
Anyways I felt traped in the relationship...he would always check up on me and accuse me when I didnt do nothin...I got fed up we went on a "break"....I went on vacation North cali visit cousins.......longs story short...I got drunk for the first time and took E...all ****** up and I hooked up with a guy..............when i realized what I had done, I went crazy...i couldnt believe it. I told him.............ya he pretty much left me....
i hurt him really bad....i was suicidal for a couple months..ah young love.
Not only did I have to deal with what I did to him...but also my own actions...i felt like a whore....im still tring to get over it yet its beeen almost a year or more...I know im not the type that would hurt someone like that and do so much damage to self -esteem...i felt discusted with myself..I was really messed uo when I did what I did. Of course there is no excuse
I thought if I put a lot of effort to show how much i was sorry...didnt work....he told me he couldn never forgive me and that the bond we had was gone. Its sad but its life
2006-12-19 07:30:11 · answer #2 · answered by mariam_blah2000 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-05 12:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way about my ex-girlfriend. I cheated on her 4 years ago.. we broke up. I left a went to another high school.. came back and she had a new bf . We are now friends and i am deep deep deeply in love with her..
2006-12-19 07:22:16 · answer #4 · answered by Javon E 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well what you did was pretty bad, but just give him some time to calm down. In the meantime concentrate on you and become a better person (not that I'm saying you are a horrible person because you are not). You apolagized over and over again but that's all you can do. So just give him some time.
2006-12-19 07:21:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You cheated on your boyfriend with someone he knew. You are some piece of work. Now you want a second chance. You deserve whatever happens.
2006-12-19 07:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have ruined the trust he had for you with the cheating. Saying sorry isn't enough. Saying sorry a hundred-thousand times isn't enough..My suggestion is to move on without him.
2006-12-19 07:20:29 · answer #7 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that you will get a chance you just need to give him some time to think but don't worry in sometime hell give you the change you want but try to talk to him and say that why he wont forgive you and just talk it over.
2006-12-19 07:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by angelbaby08 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You might have to call that lesson learned, if he doesn't accept you back then he doesn't want to be cheated on again & for whatever the reason he thinks you will do it again!
2006-12-19 07:21:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's bad enough that you cheated on him, but you cheated with someone he knows! His friends will rag on him like a dog if he does. I would just pretend your A*S*S doesn't exist your worst than trash!
2006-12-19 07:43:07 · answer #10 · answered by Lionel S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋