I am going thru a period of my life where I don't want to date anyone. I have a couple of guy friends that are interested in becoming more than friends with me but I am not attracted to any of them. I enjoy hanging out with the one because we do things and go places that I have never been before but he isn't my type.
My friends are always asking me when are you gonna get married and have some kids your 30 years old its about time for you. I want to do all of these things but I'm just not interested in seeing anyone right now. Is something wrong with me??
2006-12-19 07:17:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Isnt it great being single? Not having to answer to anyone, not having to make holiday plans around another person. I love it. You don't have to worry about having someone get jealous over you flirting.
I don't think there is anything wrong with you. You're fine, if anything it's probably a good thing to be happy alone. You just enjoy life and keep your friendships alive, those relationships you'll have forever!!
2006-12-19 07:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by Cabbage 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with getting to know your self better. You will know when is the right time for you to do these other things that people are so interested in seeing you do. I would say relax and enjoy life the way you feel best. Having friends is better than being committed.
2006-12-19 07:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by cOMpLiCaTeD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is nothing wrong with you. It's just the fact that you aren't mentally prepared to fall for a guy and marry him. When you feel it's the right time go for it. But since your 30 by now, better donot extend it. Otherwise later in life you may regret it. May God bless you and I hope you will find your match soon.
A true friend of yours
2006-12-19 10:55:34 · answer #3 · answered by Renny_007 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. i actually think it is healthy to take a break from dating occasionally. It helps you to better understand youself, and makes you more comfortable with being alone.
I dated for a long time. I actually felt "weird" if I wasn't dating someone. My friends would tell me to take a break from dating so i could work on some personal issues I was having, but I was almost scared to do that. Dating kept me from having to focus on myself too much. That was just my personal situation. Yours may be completely different.
Anyway, you will know when it is right. And, someone may just come along who will completely surprise you when you are not even looking.
Oh, and if those guys don't interest you right now, don't beat yourself up about it. Believe me, if they were right for you to date, you'de know it!
Good luck and try not to worry. You are fine.
2006-12-19 07:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by Singthing 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When the time is right you will know and only you can make that decision. Some people are very happy in their realtionships and they want you to experience that happiness also. I was 30 when I finally married my childhood friend of 15 yrs. Don't rush and no there is not anything wrong with you.
2006-12-19 07:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by MusicWoman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. I know that our culture is terribly couples-centric and that single people get a lot of pressure to date. If you need to take a break then you should take a break. However, don't put yourself on the shelf for too long. Dating only gets harder as you get older.
2006-12-19 07:20:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Their's nothing wrong with you. You are probably just in a chill mode now. That's good that you are not worried about finding a man or getting married. You will definitely find someone because you are not looking. So just keep being in your chill mode
2006-12-19 08:38:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I made the same choice. I don't regret it but I have an understanding with time, it is not waiting for me. And I know there is consequences.
I don't regret it especially when I have this and that friend whining about this and that guy. And of course hearing this and that couple has divorced.
2006-12-19 07:21:48 · answer #8 · answered by P&B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with you. when you are ready to date and settle down you will. why do it just because its "about time for you" You will know when its the right time. Just enjoy your life and if you are happy then thats all you can ask for.
2006-12-19 07:21:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, there's nothing wrong with you. You just have different priorities at this point, as you should. If anyone asks you why you haven't found a boyfriend, just smile and say, "I haven't met anyone worth my time." They'll get the hint then.
2006-12-19 10:04:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋