Yesterday night i saw my husband's computer he had atleast 50 different females photos... most of them r nude.. he says he does not have 10 min over the weekend to go out with me and my little one for grocery shopping.. in those 10 min he would like to check his mails etc... on weekdays he is always away for work we get to meet him once a week.. when he is at home over the weekend and me and my little one is with him he watches t.v all the time.. but when we go for grocery he says that he has lots of work and he cannot accompnay us... he also says it is a virus problem on his computer that he dont know how the those dirty photos have come to his messenger and mail box.. or to computer Please help me i am confused... The problem is we r on dependent visa.. i mean i cannot work legally in US but we r legal in US because he works here... and my little one was born here... I dont know driving...so he takes advantage.. in chilling cold he ask me and my little one to walk down to grocery
2006-12-19 06:26:46 · 8 answers · asked by kiran123 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sounds to me like he doesn't really care about you or your child. The computer doesn't just send you nude photos for kicks, he is either talking to these women and they send them to him or he is on the porn sites searching for them. I would have a serious talk with him and if things don't change I would think about a divorce.
2006-12-19 06:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to take control of your life...Trust me, those pics are no mistake on your husbands computer! I recently divorced my husband because of his "internet loves" ..The internet can be a powerful thing! It destroyed a 34 yr marriage...Seek out someone you can confide in that can steer you in the right directions..learn how to drive and go as far as that car will take you...He's not going to change!
2006-12-19 08:40:35 · answer #2 · answered by mary2148 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you ,I 'll do my best to be enticing and ravishing,I have more leverage that these silly females photos. A little chuchi-chuchi to stimulate his brain that will do the trick, He goes crazy with these stupid nude pictures, I bet he'll go more crazy with the real mccoy and that's YOU.
2006-12-19 06:43:16 · answer #3 · answered by Vannili 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is your first spanish lesson. You say to him adios!
Now it is time for you to be independent. If you can't do this then it is time for you to think about going back to your country.
2006-12-19 06:33:53 · answer #4 · answered by Fresh choice 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can go to your local government help agency ,tell him its for aid and ask them to help you with getting away from what sounds like a controling and cheating man
2006-12-19 06:35:52 · answer #5 · answered by tiffanyh2323 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GO SEE A MARRIAGE THERAPIST and probably go for a divorce!
2006-12-19 06:29:24 · answer #6 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on! he is a good husband,father,leave him to watch that nasty pictures,so what?im a girl and im watching porno movies...leave the men alone and say thanks u are in usa!
2006-12-19 07:36:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooow.
2006-12-19 10:00:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋