but should i keep mine despite the fact he is cheating on me like crazy with his baby mom i dont want to end up single again so i keep him around.he is good looking with a good job,nice personality and he treats me like gold the only thing is he cannot keep his dick in his pants i feel like im in a threesome relationship everytime she calls he is jonny on the spot for her he gives her money and is even there for her emotionaly how do i get my man to be commited to me and only me i want her out of the pic a.s.a.p
2006-12-19 06:02:00 · 17 answers · asked by jade c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave him and find a guy who treats you right. A good man might be hard to find, but this is someone you are spending the rest of your life with. Do you want to spend the rest of your life with a guy who cheats on you constantly?
2006-12-19 06:04:59 · answer #1 · answered by ftz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello...New Flash!
If he cannot keep his dick in his pants, he is not treating you like gold!. You've got to know your self worth, because if you don't acknowledge it- he won't either. Talk to him about what he's doing and if he won't change, than leave. You've got to realize that his baby's momma will always be in his life. There's no way around that. Making him choose wouldn't be fair and you might not like the out come of that. So...either talk him about the problem and let him know you're serious, throw your hands up and call it quits, or stay miserable. Good Luck~
2006-12-19 14:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by Candie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only hope you have of getting her all the way out of the picture is to adopt his child. Even then, prob not. Having a child together creates a kind of bond, and if he wants to be a good father, he's going to want to have both the baby and the baby's mother in his life forever. Sorry to say, if this kind of thing bothers you, find a guy who doesn't have children.
2006-12-21 09:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control anyone else's actions, only yours. He probably won't change because he has the best of both worlds, you and her. Unless one of you dumps him he won't commit to either, and even that is questionable.
Personally, I think you deserve better. Think about moving-on. If he is the father of her child they will always have a connection, and as long as they do they'll continue with what they are doing.
2006-12-22 12:18:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may feel like you really need him and want him but you are really just going to get hurt if you stay in the relationship like that. you need to tell him that if he cant be with you and only you then you are going to leave him. if he still chooses to be with another woman then you need to leave. if he chooses to keep being anothers partner even when you say you will leave thats a sign that he doesnt care as much as you think. it may suck to be single. but its either you're single or cheated on. (unless he changes his ways) its hard to hear but it is better for you.
2006-12-19 14:10:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thought about a hitman??? JUST JOKING!! It sounds like you really like him, but the thing is, as long as your there day in and day out, and not really showing signs of leaving he is going to keep doing the same things over and over!I know if i was a guy and i could have two women, without getting killed, I WOULD! He is never going to change as love as he knows he can have both of you..... have tried confronting him about it telling him that you know whats going on, and that he needs to figure out what he wants.
2006-12-19 14:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by smitty4626 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not a good man. If he's jumpin her bones who knows how many women he has lined up?! I say leave him. There are better guys out there. It's not good to be with someone just because you don't want to be single. Go out, be single, live life and have fun! :)
2006-12-19 14:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by Britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS A LOSER! I was in the same situation. Don't ever feel like you need to be with someone to make you feel good! It's hard, especially when you love him, I know, but you'll get over it. Hang out with people who make you feel good about yourself. And most of all, do not jump from one relationship to another, it makes it worse. You need time. to heal
2006-12-19 14:08:41 · answer #8 · answered by p00mkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is cheating on you, he is not a good man. A good man will not do that to you. My suggestion is to hold out and wait for one.
Being single is no fun. However, neither is getting hurt. Find out what is most important to you and take it from there.
2006-12-19 14:05:06 · answer #9 · answered by offspringkin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your man is a P.O.S. Sure he treats you good, you are stupid for keeping him around and he doesn't want to lose the happy hole he gets to play at. If you want a good man, i suggest you be a better woman, first thing to do is set higher standards for you and your future mates.
2006-12-19 14:06:25 · answer #10 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋