i saw the girl im in love with the other day how can i tell her that i have feelings for her??also is it bad cause shes 14 and im 18??
2006-12-19 06:00:10 · 26 answers · asked by crzazljose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you consider jail time as bad then yes, it's bad.
2006-12-19 06:02:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok i know wut ur goin through i look a whole lot older than wut i really am and when i was 11 i dated a 15 yr old now i no to ppl that sounds wrong but u cant help how u feel ur not supposed to but u have to promise urself u will not break her heart u have to treat her with so much respect or else if u just dump her or go behind her back u will prove to her that all guys r the same (in a hurtfull way) so instead u need to sho her that u really do love her and r willing to be judged by other ppls first thoughts and comments when they c an 18 yr old with an14 yr old but the real question is ...do you really love her?.....before u get urself into something u will regret plezzz think it over take a couple days to just think about how things would end up and if ur willin to pay that price...i hope this helped
2006-12-19 06:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by Chenille 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am the same age of the girl ,wait you would not want to get you self in a mess , I know I have men ask me and want me all the time , she is not going any where ,she is only 14 , you still have a chance to be with her ,when she is of age , and if you recently met her wait ,until she grows up , she will change her mind and taste , right now she probably has many things in common with you , but later she may not ,let her go , then see if you still love her or not , she still ,dose not make decisions for her self ,she is baby , so wait and she in the future . you may get her
2006-12-19 06:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it you shouldn't get less than than 5 or much more than 15 years. Your only 18 so even if you get 20 you'll only be 38 when you get out. Just think of how much of a moron you'll look like being with a girl 14.
2006-12-19 06:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude. Your 18. Youd have feelings for a tree at your age. No offense but its true. be in love with yourself first and then youll find someone special.
And 14 is way to young.
2006-12-19 06:03:55 · answer #5 · answered by Dio 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Odds are strong it's more lust than love. My recommendation, at 18, avoid all younger than 16. Even at 16 girls make stupid decisions and it's not a good option. Really, the women you'd probably want aren't going to know what they want until they're about 20-23. Even you probably don't really know what you want yet. I say date, but don't believe you're in love. It's really not a good idea.
2006-12-19 06:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by Gray 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her and she loves you than wait 2 year dude. But when the time comes be with with her. No age does not matter. Me and my husband are 11 years apart and we love eachother very much
2006-12-19 06:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by april 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take the next 4 years to think about it, then tell her. It's not worth the possible legal problems that along with dating someone so young.
2006-12-19 06:03:26 · answer #8 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
does she feel the same way for you? and it depends, i am 18 and going out with a 15 year old but her parents agree with it. and i have been with her since i was 17 .
2006-12-19 06:03:23 · answer #9 · answered by Dennis 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to be 150% possitive that you are in love with her first and that its not a thing. And some may think its bad that you are 4 years apart, but personally i think age doesn't matter when it comes to true love. Now her parents or even she might view it differently.
2006-12-19 06:02:35 · answer #10 · answered by Jayde 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Time apart from the person you love will really let you know whether or not your feelings are genuine...so i'd say wait until she actually grows up...give her 4 yrs...i guess that shud be enough time...dont you?
2006-12-19 06:07:20 · answer #11 · answered by Bloo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋