So I've been friends with benifits with a guy for 6 months now. We talk almost everyday on msn...he says he would never say no to me, he trusts me , etc... what does thsi mean?
2006-12-19 05:57:29 · 13 answers · asked by Bo B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just because something starts off as a friends with benefits relationship doesn't mean that it can't change over time. It sounds a lot like he's developing more intense feelings for you.
If it were something said to get into your pants, then he wouldn't be saying them anymore. Ignore the idiots who say that. They are the judgemental type who tend to be frightened by the idea that someone, besides themselves, is actually having and enjoying sex. Moreover, they seem to believe the only reason a guy falls in love is to get sex. Trust me, it's not. You don't get to 52 (me) without learning a little about love and life. Or if you do, you try not to let it show.
2006-12-19 06:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he says those things then u arent just his friend with benefits ur more and if u dont like him anymore than someone to get stuff from u need to find an other play mate
2006-12-19 14:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by Chenille 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is hinting for more than a "friends with benefits" kind of relationship.
2006-12-19 14:00:44 · answer #3 · answered by dabblin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you see that's why I keep saying that friends with benefits never work, someone always falls fort the other person.... if you just wanna be friends with this guy be clear it sounds like he's starting to like you
2006-12-19 14:01:29 · answer #4 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The least he could do is to say nice things to you since he's already got the goods with no strings attached!!!!
2006-12-19 14:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're being used for sex. You are giving away your body to someone that doesn't care enough about you to date you, take you out on dates and treat you well, but you're good enough for sex.
Happy Holidays!
2006-12-19 14:00:31 · answer #6 · answered by fedupwithu 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay...he's not exactly using you. but he doesn't want more. some people just can't do commitment. it freaks them out. i'm that way. i don't use people i just get scared for some reason and i break up w/ them.. maybe he doesn't want to hurt you?
2006-12-19 14:02:56 · answer #7 · answered by chelseajo_7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he wants to be more than just friends
2006-12-19 14:01:26 · answer #8 · answered by Marukka S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he says nice things to you because you let him in your pants
2006-12-19 13:59:49 · answer #9 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it means he saying whatever he needs to say to get in your pants..
2006-12-19 14:02:08 · answer #10 · answered by bubbles_n_ar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋