My sister in law is one of the most inconsiderate people i know.She causes trouble every chance she gets and then comes out smelling like a rose.I have never met anyone as insecure as her.She tries to run me down buy calling me names,and even tells her friends(so called!)that i am a bi*ch,just so they won't want to hang out with me.Everyone tells me to ignore her because she is just jealous.She is not the best looking person.I try but it has gotten way out of hand.She won't even let her husband hardly talk or see my husband(his brother)or his parents.I blame him for that also though.She is so possesive of him that she even works with him!He can't even go to the boys night out hockey game without her going.Mind you,she is the only women there.My mother in law has even put her two sense in.She said that she doesn't bother to say anything just to keep the peace.I say that peace at any cost is no peace at all.My question is,do i say something to her after xmas,or keep quite?
2006-12-19 05:55:17 · 5 answers · asked by Sassyface 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I hear ya. I have lost several friends because of a mess my sister-in-law started years ago. To me, the best way to keep the family peace is to avoid her at all costs, including any family outings. When they ask you why, then you can tell them it's not worth all the drama that your sister-in-law starts. If I was in your shoes, I would even consider spending Christmas and other holidays home by myself, rather than be in the same place with her. Maybe eventually she'll chill out, but I doubt it. Best of luck to ya..........
2006-12-19 06:09:08 · answer #1 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely confront her now. I have not dealt with a sister-in-law like this however my sister has. My future brother-in-law's twin brother lives only an hour and a half away and he hasn't seen him in atleast seven months. She would not even allow him to attend any of his three nieces' birthday parties. He was the only member of my brother-in-law's family that was not in attendance at these functions. I hope your situation works out a little better than my sister's. Good Luck!
2006-12-19 06:09:04 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless your sister in law is a sister to your husband, aka before you were even introduced to your husband family. So evil or not, you have to suck it up and deal with it and learn to work with your sister in law. You don't want to be the one where keep badmouthing his sister. Or else your the complainer one.
2016-05-22 21:30:33 · answer #3 · answered by Darlene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep ignoring her, but if she really gets on your last nerve, maybe you should set things straight with her, but only the 2 of you alone. Now if you're worried that she might go and say that you threatened her, you can always get one of those little recorders and hide it in you clothing when you talk to her.
Sounds like she is very insecure and psychotic.
Good luck with that.
2006-12-19 06:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by amarilysusa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kindness, that's all, she knows she's a ***** and she probably doesn't have any friends, she's miserable and misery loves company, I would go the other way when I see her coming if I were you, I have bitten my lip many times, to keep from beating someones ***, Good Luck to ya
2006-12-19 14:33:20 · answer #5 · answered by This is just my opinion! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋