well, there is this boy who likes me a year or so...he hasnt told me face to face because he is shy but he keeps telling me other things to understand it...the problem is that i NOW found out that while he was about to ask me to be his girlfriend (3 months ago), he had another girlfriend!!! i told him that ''you told me sth that you didnt realize what exactly it means to me''...and he couldnt understand..the thing is...he broke up with that girl 2 months ago...she is a slut! but i dont care...i now found out that he was dating her...he told me today that he only wanted her for sex...what should i do? believe him? i have already given him so many chances...can a boy be in love and at the same time dating another girl? why did he do that? he dais ''only for sex''..for god's sake..
2006-12-19 05:54:28 · 8 answers · asked by ursula!!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i m 16....sex its not what i am thinking this period..he sais that i m different,...no like the other girl..that he feels sth special for me..i dunno..it kinds sounds like a fairy tale.
2006-12-19 06:01:40 · update #1
oh, and he knew what i feel....the way he had told me, i had told him too...besides i dont think being free is what it counts...but what he feels...if he feels sth special for me, he cant go with the other girl and then wait until he brake up and date me..
2006-12-19 06:03:24 · update #2
He's just not that into you.If he was interested in you he would tell you honestly and wouldnt make you wait soo long.If he was using her just for sex,chances are good that he will use you for the same reason in future.He's just playing around with you.
Trust me he needs nothin more than sex from you too.Stay away from him.There are many better out there for you.Save yourself from heart break and move on.Do yourself a favour by ignoring him.
2006-12-19 06:09:23 · answer #1 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You weren't dating him at that time and he was totally free to see someone else, regardless of the reason. The fact is that he didn't ask you while he was seeing the other girl and waited until they were "broken up". It sounds as if you have it bad for this guy and are more pissed that he was sleeping with someone else and someone you can't stand on top of that. If you really liked him but you didn't let him know how you felt about it then you can't really get mad about him finding a relationship elsewhere. That's just you being totally selfish.
2006-12-19 14:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....let's see if I got this right...some shy guy that you think likes you just told you that he only wanted sex from his ex? He sounds like he's after something....cause any guy knows that one is never enough. Best piece of advice I can give you is to always think twice before going out with a guy that says bad things about his former girlfriend....who knows? you might be his next former girlfriend....how would you feel if he told people he only wanted sex from you?
2006-12-19 14:02:00 · answer #3 · answered by free2prank 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly is he getting from you? Boys don't know love..men do... Men are of the male sex over I'd say 35 yrs old!! lots o luck...
2006-12-19 13:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's willing to string a girl along for sex, he is not to be trusted. Dump him: He's probably going to do the same thing to you.
2006-12-19 13:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by Tigger 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me it sounds like if he just want to have sex with you. but if he really liked you then he wouoldnt so let him prove to you that your more then just a **** buddy.
2006-12-19 13:58:02 · answer #6 · answered by princess1001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is dating girls for that reason then i wouldn't trust him at all
2006-12-19 13:57:57 · answer #7 · answered by emile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reject away he is a user
2006-12-19 14:01:46 · answer #8 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋