2006-12-19 05:50:06 · 28 answers · asked by beutifulx2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on my motive. If all I wanted was to get laid then no. If I was looking for a wife then yes, if I was attracted to her.
2006-12-19 05:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that saving yourself for the person you are going to marry is a great idea! If that is what you believe in and it has many values! Alot of people look at people funny or you get called nasty names when you have a child out of wed-lock or if your tooo young. I'm sure you know how people are. Personaly, If I could go back I might change some of the things that I have done. I on the other hand am a "horndog" as my fiance says LOL I don't know if I could live without it! I do take precautions though, I am on birthcontrol, and I have been with the same person for almost 4 years now, so It's not like I sleep around or anything. Anyways, I think that saving it is a nice and a good thing to do.
2006-12-19 06:08:06 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy Lou 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, b/c if i liked the person enough then i would respect their choice. I want to wait to have sex, but i don't condemn anyone who decides otherwise. I however, believe that my body is my temple, and it is all that i was born with and the only thing that i will have the rest of my life. I think that i would only want to have sex with someone that i am sure will respect my temple, and someone who i know i will spend the rest of my life with (a husband).
I kno it sounds old fashioned, but that is what i believe personally. Sometimes i think that the only thing people today think of is sex. That isn't the only thing that relationships are about, it should be about love (and not only the physical kind).
2006-12-19 06:08:23 · answer #3 · answered by bonca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would. I can say that because I did. And I can say that one of the plus sides of someone waiting for marriage is that you don't have the whole "comparison" thing going on. If you're not into the whole "waiting for marriage" kinda thing, then don't start the relationship. But if you think you would be the kind to, eventually, go the marriage route and you do think that the person is worth it, then I say go for it! :) Good luck.
2006-12-19 05:57:19 · answer #4 · answered by Qmd86 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well..it would be a downfall because you cant share that passion for eachother untill marriage i mean ouch..like its good to wait a while and get to know each other so the relationship isnt based on that!...however..that mgiht be a conflict later when your really in the mood and cant..its not everything about a relationship so it depends on how much you respect and care for this person..maybe they are worth it
2006-12-19 05:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Probably not though I respect you. I believe that sex should happen before marraige to see if someone is compatible with you. I do realize that sex is not all that a marraige should be based on, however, it is the ultimate expression of love and should be experienced fully before making a commitment to marraige. I do respect your ideas though even though they differ than mine. Do what you will and harm none. Blessed be Maeve
2006-12-19 05:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by queenmaeve172000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like SEX, OK? I can't wait for a marriage that I'm never going to have!
2006-12-19 10:13:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I could do it all over again, I would have saved myself for marriage and found someone who had saved herself for marriage...
2006-12-19 05:52:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course that the best save ur virginity until marriage im like that is old fashioned way but i dont care
2006-12-19 05:54:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes l guess such people are the right people to have in a relationship and more over relationship is not all about sex as many people has made it these days.
2006-12-19 05:54:43 · answer #10 · answered by mexy71 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋