2006-12-19 05:39:45 · 12 answers · asked by funkifiedfreak 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are alot of signs...he may open a door, shoot you an eye, or buy you a drink. Of course if he's just a gentleman, he'll do that anyway so it's tough to tell.
My wife and I of 5 years were friends for about 7 years or so before we even started dating...I always had a crush on her but never moved in because I was dating someone else or she was...and I just generally didn't think I would be good enough for her (in regards to responsibility)...eventually I came around but it took me a while and a really bad breakup with an ex-girlfriend to realize that I really did have the best one under my nose the whole time.
If he likes you as more than a friend...eventually it will come out. If you don't want to wait...ask him to go out for a drink sometime and then flirt. You'll see his reaction and figure out whether or not he likes you that way. Good luck.
2006-12-19 05:47:14 · answer #1 · answered by jables 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello. Aside from 2 points. I figure I'd tell you how I work.
See. I am really interested in this girl. I mean. More than friends.
But I am shy. If you knew me. You would know when you have gained my trust or confidence.
I don't tend to look people in the eyes cause What runs through my mind is. "Uh oh. They are looking at me. I bet they think I am goofy looking. Maybe they want me to leave" Basically. I think negatively about myself most of the time when I am staring someone in the eyes. Unless they are family.
Now. In the case with this girl I like. I will stare her in the eyes when I am talking to her. Well. Most of the time anyway. Sometime back I use to all the time. Like I said.
If a guy like me stares you in the eyes when talking to you.
You have gained there trust and confidence.....
*scratches head* Hmmm. Guess it really doesn't answer yur question does it.
The above answers are pretty good.
I guess I really don't know how to answer that question right now. I guess I'll have to sleep on it.
2006-12-19 14:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by Boon Goonie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well guys are a lot more obvious than girls when it comes to showing that they like a girl. They'll stare at you differently and the way they treat you is different. But mostly you just feel that vibe from a guy.
2006-12-19 13:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by yleemoreno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me coming from a male. If a man hangs out with a women, more than a couple times a week on a consistant basis. He is interested in having sex with you. That doesn't mean that he wants to be your boyfriend, but it's a start.
2006-12-19 13:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guy is different but flirting is universal if you find a guy being extra super duper friendly towards you then thats his way of telling you he likes you.
2006-12-19 13:44:23 · answer #5 · answered by ~Stephie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man thats easy.
Us men are simple creatures.
Basically look him in the eye, if he looks away then go for it!
If he looks you in the eye and then says "What?" then hes a friend fo sho :)
2006-12-19 13:42:32 · answer #6 · answered by Prof. Timpo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ask people, usually he tells his friends. if he touches you alot of looks at you alot, if he tells you things he trusts you and stuff, does he have a lot of friend girls? does he treat you different, if he talks about other girls he thinks of you as a friend .
2006-12-19 13:44:37 · answer #7 · answered by call_me_LaLa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calling u all the time and hanging out after skool
2006-12-19 13:42:13 · answer #8 · answered by combs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them. Get some confidence and just ask them!!
2006-12-19 13:41:37 · answer #9 · answered by momdadand4kids 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make it sure that he is in your heart too. how comes is not, it is unfair.
2006-12-19 13:43:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋