We live together now. She just moved to this side of the state and doesn't have that many friends so I'm happy she hangs out but within reason. Not coming home at night hurts my feeling.
2006-12-19 05:27:06 · 13 answers · asked by hellafide 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not coming home to the one you are living with is just wrong!! Is she out with friends that are single? Do you know for sure where she is all night long while out or who with would be my main concern. Either way if you are committed to your relationship with someone you will come home at night. Doing otherwise just causes trouble. Tell her how you feel.
2006-12-19 05:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by tessie452004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meeting with new friends and getting familiar and comfortable in a new surrounding isn't a bad thing but to not return home at all seems very strange. Talk to her about how this makes you feel and how concerned you are when she doesn't return home. Moving in together was probably a commitment step for both of you, her staying out all night does not seem very committable. Does she even call to let you know her where abouts?
2006-12-19 05:35:36 · answer #2 · answered by kz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an issue. Of course you don't want her driving drunk or anything, but she should be able to control herself or get rides. I am assuming you guys are passed the stage where it is ok to pass out on a friend's bathroom floor and you would rather make it home to a bed.
Talk to her and tell her it is a little wierd. She at least has to call you so you don't worry.
I'm fine with my fiance not coming home if she goes out with her friends though. I will do the same and get wrecked and sleep on the friend's bathroom floor...I do not care. It is good to have separate fun.
2006-12-19 05:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by Morty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is she?
Sounds like she's still teenager since you mentioned her lack of responsibility..
If she didn't come home surely she must spent her night at someone's place..
You should talk to her about this.. if she repeats then think about what other irresponsible behaviours she will create in the relationship?
It would be hard to live with untamed girl..
2006-12-19 05:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should be coming home at night no matter if she hangs out with friends or not. Ask her how she would like it if you didn't come home at night? would she assume you were cheating??? Hmmmm....could be the reason the girl isn't coming home.
2006-12-19 05:34:02 · answer #5 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I friend of mine had a problem like that, she said when he didn't come she wouldn't be home either, she spent the night with me.He got the hint and started coming home then.People don't realize what they are doing until they see it for themselves.
2006-12-19 05:34:02 · answer #6 · answered by imacutie2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You arent gonna wanna hear this but man you need to get this in check asap. That happend to me man and now she is gone friends are bad influences that is all i know from experiences there aint no way around it unless they are from church or some type of group. Drugs and drinking will always lead to nothing but bad things that is for sure changes your judgemnt on everyhing fix it asap
2006-12-19 05:34:00 · answer #7 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her that there other ways to make friends besides staying out all night. You need her at home with you.
2006-12-19 05:33:10 · answer #8 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, she's getting "stuck" somewhere else on purpose. You're getting played. Women can be playas too, ya know? Now stop sittin' 'round with your feelings hurt and get your groove on, too.
2006-12-19 05:32:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not coming home at all? I'd get a new girlfriend, since it sounds like she found herself a new man.....
2006-12-19 05:35:09 · answer #10 · answered by fedupwithu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋