ok, i usually am a pretty level headed person. but i got myself in a mess a very big mess. i am cheating on my boyfriend of two years with two diffrent people. his best friend and my best friend. his friend is nice hot and a bad boy my friend is a sweet sensative girl who is alwayse there for me i love my boyfriend but he isnt bad enough for me and my friend is just a weird situation i am ending it with her but what do i do about my boyfriend and his best friend?
2006-12-19 05:26:32 · 12 answers · asked by ashley h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should tell them all the truth. If you don't then they'll all think that you love them when you really don't. Then you'll just be leading them on. As far as your boyfriend-if he's not bad enough for you then why are you still with him after two years.
I personally would tell everyone the truth and then tell them that I need time by myself so I can think things over and move on with my life from there.
Don't lead your friends on!.
2006-12-19 05:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Jeff - It is what it is ☺ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you say you "love your boyfriend" and yet do that to him? how do you even look him in the face at the end of the day? stories like these break my heart. i have been cheated on and found out many months later.. you should know that really hurts its one of the most awefull things you could do to a person without physically harming them. i think you should let go of all your pride, go to your boyfriend and tell him what an awfull person you are and how you hope no one ever treats him as bad as you have, and your sorry(if you are) and leave the poor guy to recover.. get away from him let him find someone who really will love him.
i think you need to search your soul after all this and find out why you would do this. are you just really horney?? or not able to "feel" loved and trying to satisfy that need through scandelous sexual relationships? down the road you will find yourself in a pool of misery that you have created by your choices though you may or may not be ble to see that now and it may be 20 years down the path of life. i would encourage you to take some time alone and really search yourself-i am sure you are not a horrible person as one might think from your story- i believe you just have some confusion about what your life is about.
2006-12-19 13:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to end it with your boyfriend. Something is not right if you were going elsewhere. You dont have to come clean but I think it would be a good idea to end it before he is hurt anymore. As for the best friend this probably isnt a good situation either. Maybe you need to find yourself and figure out what you want out of a relationship.
2006-12-19 13:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by dgail007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't seem like level headedness at all! Obviously you have NOT dealt fairly with any one of your "relationships". I suggest you ask out of all your present flings and get your **** together. You plainly operating on a sexual level only and are not operating on one of mutual respect , campassionate or truthful level. Your actions are hardly that of a friend either. Seems to me you are very "confused "and may need counselling.Then if any of these present relationships are "supposed to be"... which I dboubt, they can later be renewed. they'll come again.
2006-12-19 13:39:22 · answer #4 · answered by M B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you feel bad you are messing around with people feelings. Tell your boyfriend the truth. Dump him if he's not the one for you. Insetad of sleeping with his friend. You know what goes around comes around
2006-12-19 13:30:38 · answer #5 · answered by fiestylady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
throughout your answers you have said you have had your boyfriends for 2 years then 3 years then 4 years.
Can you have a week without a dick in you?
2006-12-20 15:53:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about this, the grass always looks greener from the other side. if you got with this bad boy, he may end up lying to you, cheating on you, sneaking around, ect.. you might be happier staying with your bf.
2006-12-19 13:32:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face the facts that you are a slut and that you shouldn't be trusted. Your boyfriend deserves better.
2006-12-19 13:31:16 · answer #8 · answered by fedupwithu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate SIUTS like you that is all you are hate to tell you stop being a SIUT
2006-12-19 13:28:53 · answer #9 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r a jerk no offense but you are u better apologize and tell all of them the truth!!!
2006-12-19 13:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by mysteryathelete 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋