i've been seeing this guy for over 5 mnths and really liked him until i found out all he ever wanted from me was casual sex... i've now come to my senses and haven't given him any for a month and he looks so frustrated, its funny! despite my distance, he still tries to flirt with me (he works with me).... i've got a feeling he's expecting to get some before xmas, but i'm planning to go away for the holidays. since he never tells me what he's up to, i'm not going to say anything to him when i leave. i'm planning to take off at least 3 wks.. so when he returns in the new year i'll still be on vacation... should i go without saying anything and just let him wonder?
2006-12-19 05:26:12 · 7 answers · asked by God's own 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop playing games. It's not going to get you anywhere with this guy. He used you. Get over it. Move on and find someone who really cares about you.
2006-12-19 05:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by fedupwithu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Linda M...lol I say Yes. Just make your plans and don't tell him. It will drive him crazy!!!
When you do return, just tell him you went to go visit an old friend, Mr. Smooth...;)
2006-12-19 13:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go have a great time and not have a second thought about it. Casual sex is all that it is!!! Have a great vacation!!!!
2006-12-19 13:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by smokinsarasue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah just do it is gon be tite and frustrating too
2006-12-19 13:29:40 · answer #4 · answered by combs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him wonder. If he's that desperate, he can find it somewhere else.
2006-12-19 13:28:32 · answer #5 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha yeah. leave him and don't tell him. Then you'll know if he really wants you or not.
2006-12-19 13:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do him
2006-12-19 13:28:26 · answer #7 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋