My boyfriend and I have been together for About a year and we are very close. He has stuck with me thru the good times and the bad. But he is always wanting to be so touchy and all he wants to do is have sex. Still after a year I have not given it up to him I am just not ready. He always pressures me to and gets mad when I say no. He gets really angry with me and I am just wondering if that is all he wants from this relationship. But then I think if thats all he wouldnt have stayed with me this long but I just dont know. How can you tell if this is real or a guy just wanting to get me to give it up to him?
2006-12-19 05:22:59 · 9 answers · asked by Sexy Blonde 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound like a tease...Sexy Blonde...but won't give it up. If he wants and needs it that bad, why don't you give him the okay to do it with someone else? Apparently he really likes you but he still has physical needs. You're not that good that he's not able to get a nut somewhere else, ya know?
2006-12-19 05:29:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm v.pleased to hear that you are close in your relationship and that you have stood your ground when it comes to sex. you must be ready for a commitment like that. not many people think sex is a big deal but it actually is. Don't feel pressured to do anything your not comfortable with. If he loves you enough he'll wait - if he won't wait then you know he isn't considering your feelings and he isn't worth it. you don't want to loose it with him and realise then that that was all he was wanting!! He obviously cares a lot about you coz he wouldn't have stayed with you this long and a man respects a woman more if you don't dive straight in. Just have a chat with him about it. Tell him how you feel and stress the reasons why you feel what you do. Being honest with each other is the best thing you can do. Hope it works out Love Smyles xx
2006-12-19 13:39:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is he angry? does he want you to do something you're not ready for just for his sake? ask him if he is going to leave you if you don't sleep with him? there's a lot of things trying to pass for love these days. pressuring your partner for sex is not very loving. if he needs to have sex & you're not ready then you have to think about what the future of the relationship is. A year is a long time but the regret of sex before you were ready lasts a lot longer.
2006-12-19 13:32:36 · answer #3 · answered by L. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful with your decision there are many types of guys some that attacks you hard and fast and some who are really patient predators just like a sniper in wait. Why not tell him the importance of you not giving him that. Tell him youd want to save that for marriage. Be bold and put your feet down and tell him that.
Theres also a possibility which you can offer him without having sexs. "what about foreplay?"
2006-12-19 13:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by Lawrence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has been with you for a year with n sex..obiviously thats his way of telling you that he wants to be with you for long term..he would have left by now ..I think that you should think about whether or not if you really want to give it up..and if so then I think he would be your perfect choice
2006-12-19 13:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweet heart you don't love him either you guys just like eachother alot... don't make this thing a big dael ok
2006-12-19 13:25:38 · answer #6 · answered by enjoying_lyfe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has waited this long, if all he wanted from you was sex, he would have been left.
2006-12-19 13:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by TE TE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ll find out dont do something you dont want to do though that is for sure
2006-12-19 13:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you
2006-12-19 13:25:09 · answer #9 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋