What should I do?

Question

I have been going with someone for one year and seven months everything used to be good untill a few weeks ago she started to act funny. She asked me if i'll ever dump her if she started to like someone else. Then yhis weekend she aske to go to Florida with her. I asked her what she going to Florida for then she said to see the big booty hoes. Seriously what kind of stuff she talking about. I wish i knew what to say or do. Talking to her is not working everytime i try to talk to her she takes it the wrong way and starts accusing me of cheating. I feel like she is the one cheating. This weekend i went over her house and spent the whole weekend with her i though that we was going to have a good time but we hardly did because she had to go to a wrestling match on saturday and when she got back she got on the computer and start chating with one of her friends but when i do it she gets super mad at me. I wish i knew what to do. I need help. SOS!!!!!!!! We both girls. What Should i do? SOS

Answer 1

Obviously there is no communication with your girlfriend, she also isn't doing much efforts to spend time with you from what you say.
So if i were you I would think about where you're standing in this relationship, and where you think it's going to go.
Write her a letter, tell her how you feel and ask her what she thinks of your relationship. It will give her time to think and she won't have to freak out and think you are the one cheating on her (hopefully).
From what you see, she is working real hard to make your relationship a real pain...
If you don't see a future with her, then just leave her. It's not because you have been with her for over a year that she is right for you. People change, relationship can end too.

Answer 2

You don't want the answer, but in that deep part of your gut, you know what it is. The girl you're involved with doesn't seem to know how to honestly confront you and say that she is no longer interested. This is a hard thing because of her behaviour. She is showing that she rather be other places than with you and that other things are more interesting to her than you are.

I am sorry. It hurts when you love someone and they dump you with their behaviour--even if they've never actually said the words. Regardless of sexual orientation, feelings are feelings. Before it gets really ugly, end it with her. Don't let anyone step on you emotionally or mentally and then dismiss you. You are worth more than that. Your life has value and meaning and there is definitely someone out there who will value you for everything that you have to offer.

If you want to try one last time. Try a dyad (two people talking face to face sitting opposite each other and looking each other in the eye). I'm not going to sugar coat this, it's damn hard to do when you are emotionally involved, but it is absolutely necessary. Your time is precious, don't waste it on someone who doesn't want to be with you anymore. Find out where you stand!!!

Answer 3

Sorry to say, sounds like she's straying away from you.

Answer 4

sounds like to me she wants out, so you need to prepare yourself for it now, before you get hurt.

Answer 5

she is wanting to see the big booty hoes!!!! SCARY!!