i am recently going out with a guy who i met online frm canada,i am trying to read him,so far his really respectful,he kises my forehead,covers my body when i am wearing something open when some guys pass by,he cares about me.we get along well..i know his much taller then me and plus his not goodlooking at all.but thr is something which makes me love him alot.do u think i should continue loving him
2006-12-19 05:04:29 · 27 answers · asked by Yasmin 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well he likes me wearing sexy outfit but he wont touch me badly except for french kiss and his hands will b on my shoulder or playing with my hair while kissing and at times he doesnt even mind if i wear casual clothes, i found out his hairy lol and that scares me! through he tells me that he will wax for my sake and i should do that for him lol
2006-12-19 05:21:11 · update #1
Yasmin...only time will tell. It appears that you have an emotional attraction to him versus a physical attraction. I think this is a good start because eventually looks will fade away. You should ask yourself if you would prefer a hot looking guy that treated poorly. I think you should give this relationship some more time to see if it blossoms into something wonderful.
2006-12-19 05:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Superficial are looks. Fake and unreal. What you have is a real man and a real chance to make a real future. Why chase after the fakeness that is put in our faces every day? Embrace what God has given you and be thankful for the gift of love and laughter!
2006-12-19 13:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by lee911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means yes. Be patient though, there is no big hurry. I'm glad that you're not a shallow person, you see through to his heart. Let him spoil you like you deserve to be spoiled. Again, since you've met him online, take your time with him to make sure you know him inside and out. Best of luck to ya.
2006-12-19 13:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see a reason for you to not love him...as long as he treats you well and he has a personality that you find great, and you started to develop feelings for him...i don't see why looks should get in the way of love.....
Looks are not everything...and believe me...there are good looking guys who can be very very rude and disrespectful.....i prefer the ones who treat me well!
2006-12-19 13:12:00 · answer #4 · answered by Need Help! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way to point out all this guy's faults.
If you are not attracted to him, then why the hell are you going out with this guy?
All I know is that if I found out that my girlfriend said I was not attractive I would go find someone who DID think I looked good.
2006-12-19 13:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by Morty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks don't have to matter. Sometimes when you love someone they become better looking to you. If there is absolutely no attraction other than in a friendly nature then back off.
2006-12-19 13:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You found a great guy it sound like.In my book looks don't count at all.All that matters is he likes you lots and you love him a lot.Please don't brake up with him because of one reason.I think you should keep on dating girl.
2006-12-19 13:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kinda sounds like he may be a bit controlling if you don't know each other real well and he is already (with out words) telling you he doesn't like your taste (in clothes). But if you love him, despite appearances, stick with him. Love is blind.
2006-12-19 13:09:34 · answer #8 · answered by purpledragonflyjrh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion I think reguardless of what a person is like you should love them for who they are and not what they look like or have. He sounds like a gentlemen to me and wants what is best for you. If you love him then you should continue loving because it is there not because you want to love him.
2006-12-19 13:12:31 · answer #9 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are questioning if you love him or not then its not really love! If he treats you right and respects you then stay with him no matter the looks.
2006-12-19 13:06:50 · answer #10 · answered by zepp_lin11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋