I just came home from out of town traveling and i surprised my boyfriend and i went into his room and found a couple of dirty boxers with dried up white stuff all over them! I think its what i think it is but im not sure??? How can i prove and ask him if hes been cheating???
2006-12-19 04:58:53 · 13 answers · asked by PASSIONS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I CHECK MY HUSBANDS BOXERS ALL OF THE TIME. IT DOES NOT PROVE THAT HE HAS BEEN CHEATING ON YOU. IT COULD BE SMEGMA (WHICH IS A WHITE DISCHARGE THAT UNCIRCUMCISED MEN GET AROUND THE HEAD OF THE PENIS & THIS IS NORMAL). OR HE COULD HAVE BEEN MASTURBATING WITH HIS BOXERS ON. BUT I UNDERSTAND YOUR CONCERN. I CAN HONESTLY SAY THAT ONLY YOU KNOW HOW YOU FEEL INSIDE AND A WOMENS INTIUITION IS HARDLY EVER WRONG BUT IT CAN BE. I ALSO CHECK HIS ASHTRAY FOR DIFFERENT TYPES OF CIGARETTE BUTTS AND LIPSTICK. YOU CAN ALSO CHECK HIS PHONE, MESSAGES, AND LOOK FOR MAKE UP SPOTS AND THE SCENT OF PERFUME ON HIS SHIRTS. I ALSO SEARCH FOR DIFFERENT STRANDS OF HAIR ON HIS CLOTHES. I KNOW I SOUND PSYCHOTIC BUT I REALLY AM NORMAL. I HAVE JUST BEEN CHEATED ON BY OTHER MEN IN MY PAST AND DO NOT WANT TO BE A FOOL AGAIN. YOU CAN ASK HIM IF HE IS SEEING ANOTHER WOMAN BUT IF HE IS OF COURSE HE WILL NOT TELL YOU THE TRUTH. SO I HAVE LEARNED TO KEEP MY SUSPICIONS TO MYSELF AND JUST WATCH FOR THE SIGNS BECAUSE IF HE THINKS YOU ARE ON TO HIM, HE WILL BE VERY CAREFUL NOT TO SLIP UP. BUT ON THE OTHER HAND IF HE THINKS YOU HAVE NO IDEA ABOUT HIS BEHAVIOR HE WILL EVENTUALLY GET SLOPPY AND ULTIMATELY GET CAUGHT! MY HUSBAND HAS NEVER CHEATED ON ME DESPITE MY LACK OF FAITH. IT IS SAD TO HAVE TO RESORT TO THIS PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR BEHAVIOR BUT SOMETIMES IT IS ALL WE CAN DO TO FIND PEACE WITHIN OURSELVES. I HOPE ALL IS WELL WITH YOU AND STAY STRONG. GOOD LUCK WITH THIS!
2006-12-19 05:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Crickett 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Sounds like you had an idea he might be cheating before you found the stains if the first thing you thought of was "is he cheating" a woman knows these type of things do you really need prove? If so lay low and if he is you will catch him. Men are not very good at lying and cheating without getting caught. If you want to stay until you have prove, just wait it out. If I were you I would ask and see how he reacts.
2006-12-19 05:08:36 · answer #2 · answered by Binky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he had ´white stuff´ in his boxers doesnt mean he is cheating on you....?
Maybe he got ´happy´ all by himself.....
2006-12-19 05:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by BadGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have been choking the chicken, wiggling the worm, yanking his doodle, and might not have been cheating, but instead using his old underwear as a c.u.m-rag. I suggest further investigation!
2006-12-19 05:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You boyfriend basically has diabetes and it's crystallize sugar from constant urination
2015-11-30 18:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its what you think and if he cheats on you i wouldnt bother asking him i would just tell him to go to the girl that he cheated on you with cause you dont want a cheater and dont deserve that kind of treatment no one does
2006-12-19 05:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by angie f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think it's c*um? Because that's what I think it is. So what? Maybe he was a little horny well you were gone and needed to pleasure himself. Is there a problem with that?
2006-12-19 11:41:33 · answer #7 · answered by someone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't mean he was cheating, you git. He probably was jerking it. If you found condoms that would be one thing. Check his trash.
2006-12-19 05:03:47 · answer #8 · answered by Bathtub Admiral 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb he had a wet dream? mayb he got busy with himself while u were gone? why does it have to be cheating? just ask him!
2006-12-19 05:01:54 · answer #9 · answered by impala400sb 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be that he was cumming in his sleep. Its called, nocturnal ejaculations. Guys have them now and then.
Instead, show them to him and tell him...
I hope you were dreaming of ME!
2006-12-19 05:01:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋