Because I am very little and don't stand a chance against them. And I tried lifting weights, I just can't do it.
2006-12-19 04:54:35 · 12 answers · asked by tprincl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I used to be a bit heavier and bigger than my boyfriend (even though he's taller than me...but he was quite skinny :P), I still found him adorable and enjoyed having him sitting on my laps instead of me sitting on his lol!! Now he's grown and become heavier and stronger than me though. It doesn't matter because I love him for him :)
2006-12-19 05:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by CutePanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to Maslow's Needs Theory, safety is a big concern...and usually girls want a guy bigger than them because it is not only socially acceptable, it ties into psychology. Not to dump all of this on you, but if you find a woman or girl that wants to be with you and they are bigger/stronger than you, there is a good chance you would be abused in the relationship. So, I advise that you go to a trainer and work that body of yours...even the "ARNOLD" was puny and there are other body builders that had to work for years to build themselves up.
2006-12-19 12:59:21 · answer #2 · answered by Marilyn C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does matter or you wuld not have asked.
Some of us were not given lovely bodies and all that people say is what they want. Many are not even atractive at all.
Just look around and you will se that for each of us there is another that thinks we are just right.
I must admiti it takes a while some times but the other is there.
2006-12-19 13:43:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally i like bigger men coz of the sense of security but i do have a girlfriend who likes short, skinny boys. She's tall and pretty big sized. But it's the "maternal instincts" she says. She likes the feeling of taking care of "someone that seems so vunerable." That's what she tells us.
But don't worry. There are heaps of really petite girls out there. I'm sure you'll find someone who loves you just the way you are.
2006-12-19 13:00:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you mean by bigger and stronger? Do you mean emotionally or physically? I wouldn't like to be bigger and stronger physically than my boyfriend but a lot of girls like to be emotionally. They're called feminists. They like to take control or wear the pants in the relationships. And with this I'm talking about the really strong feminist. i'm not that bad, I just believe in 50/50 in relationships in everything.
2006-12-19 12:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by yleemoreno 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ahh, there are girls who like to be bigger than their boyfriend, im not one of them but I know girls who are. Depending on how old you are you will probly get bigger, so no worrys!!
2006-12-19 12:59:07 · answer #6 · answered by Natasha!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try dating female little people. Then you will be bigger.
2006-12-19 12:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes
2006-12-19 12:56:37 · answer #8 · answered by Brett S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No the man she be strong one not woman.
2006-12-19 12:56:41 · answer #9 · answered by Disha 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes there are i am one but i am engaged to get married
2006-12-19 12:56:26 · answer #10 · answered by angie f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋