2006-12-19 04:26:01 · 14 answers · asked by xx_metoyou_xx 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Find new friends. If they were true friends, they wold not talk about you behind your back.
2006-12-19 04:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by Ron H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to have a heirarchy of friends (which I always thought was silly to begin with), I'd drop this one a rung or two down from 'best'. Then say 'stop being a lousy sod that talks behind my back' and give her a chance to earn her place back.
2006-12-19 13:52:30 · answer #2 · answered by The Mad Shillelagh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest asking her about it. Or maybe there's just someone jealous of your friendship,and trying to ruin it. The best thing to do is ask your friend about it. Be sure to do it privately. A crowd tends to bring on more drama. If you trust her after talking, then let it go. If not, it's time to move on.
2006-12-19 12:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not your best friend. Cut your losses & realize you made an error in judgement. It's happend to all of us. Move on, and beware if they talk about others behind they're back then you can bet they're talking about you behind your back. Good luck.
2006-12-19 15:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by 2D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tape record all the crap she says about all her other friends. Then have a pizza party one night. Don't invite her. Then play the tape for everyone else. I'll bet she doesn't have any friends any more. She's not a "friend" she's a nosey, gossipy opportunist who craves attention.
2006-12-19 13:00:35 · answer #5 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her about it. Tell her you don't appreciate the things she's saying and that if she has something to say she needs to come to you directly. I would get rid of her as a friend, because it doesn't sound like she's a friend at all.
2006-12-19 12:29:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not your friend move on . A friendperiod .... would not talk about you behind your back !!!!!!!!!!!!!! Usually these types of people do this because their insecure .
2006-12-19 12:29:19 · answer #7 · answered by HAPA CHIC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While talking about why your friend gossips about you would be idealistic, the more practical approach would be to disengage from the friendship.
2006-12-19 12:35:28 · answer #8 · answered by Buster K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply talk to her about it. start off by saying like "hey did you say that . . . " not in a snotty way but in a just checking up way. u really just need to talk about it =) good luck
2006-12-19 12:28:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, I would stop calling them my best friend. Second, I would confront them about it.
2006-12-19 14:32:19 · answer #10 · answered by Gen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋