Do you think that women's attitude towards "nice guys" is responsible for the creation of the PUA community?

Question

Also, do you think that PUAs (pick up artists) a justified in misleading women, who would other wise overlook them because the don't outwardly show signs of being an Alpha male?

This question is about pick up artists experiences with women, not your own.

Thanks Mechanical. That's a good answer. :)

Thanks for your response dlin. There major difference between men and women's thinking towards the opposite sex is generaly a womans is not a first physical impression attraction while men's definately is.

Answer 1

For me it was seeing my friends who are nice guys get screwed over by women that led me to adopt a different approach than they took. One friend of mine was dumped 47 times. Another paid off his gf's credit card debt of 10k with his college officer enlistment money and she dumped him after he paid it all off. Seeing that I realized it's better to be the hunter than the hunted.


[Your email is not confirmed so I couldn't respond to your private message.

But my response was:

"I didn't even know there was a term to be honest. But I do think your conclusion is correct about the way women treat nice guys leads to other guys seeing that and not being so nice.

If you see your friends getting burned you just kinda want to do the same thing to the women. "]

Answer 2

Guys are totally clueless about women and what they really want. A guy thinks with the wrong head always. If he thought about how to make a woman happy, with the shoulder head, the other head would be taken care of without worry.

Answer 3

only a few women, and mostly younger ones,, prefer "bad" boys over "nice" ones, and even then, its not really the badness that attracts them,,,, often its some type chemistry....... no i dont think that is the reason for PUA's,,,, they are around anyway,, and i dont think they really deep down pay that much attention to women or their attitudes,,,,
its really just like men,,,, why are they , when younger especially, so attracted to looks and body,,, as opposed to true spirit/substance

Answer 4

Woman attitudes have never decided what I choose to be my behavior, Woman whom like Bad boys are usually bad woman, best I can tell you is to don't blame them, just stay away from them, they will probable end up old and alone anyway or with a bunch of misfit children.