Felt not sorry one bit and hadn't even cared about the fact that they were hurting your child.
2006-12-19 03:38:23 · 23 answers · asked by JASNJ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Are you serious? Please tell me you are not standing by while people abuse your child. If you cannot protect your child, who will? You need to stand up for your child even if you have to stand in between your child and those abusers. Threaten to call the police if it happens again and then you must follow through. You MUST protect your child at all costs.
2006-12-19 03:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by downinmn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First you need to leave this situation. You've got to realize you had your son and that came with conditions-saving him is just one of them. Second, go to the police so this doesn't happen to any other child. Third, get a divorce and forget about men for awhile. It seems like you need mama and children time only for a long time to see what kind of parent you are. Seek therapy for your son because he'll need it in the future and his relationships.
I have seen this in person before-it isn't pretty as the child grows older without getting out of the environment and into therapy.
2006-12-19 04:04:58 · answer #2 · answered by ajkoolkats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and file a report and then divorce the loser- maybe you should find some family member to take care of the child if you have no maternal feelings towards the child and the fact that someone you brought into the home is abusing him... That is sickening!!!!!
2006-12-19 04:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by luckygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You are, literally, obsessed with child abuse.
Note: Before everyone else freaks out on me for being "too harsh", go check out all of her 63 (63!!) other questions about abuse, physical and/or sexual. Apparently not only is her friend being abused, but her brother, her brother's friend, her friend's child, her friend's brother, and it is implied that someone is being abused by a family friend, and someone else is being abused by an uncle.
Now, if this is all true, then I'm very sorry for my skepticism. I would advise you to get out of wherever you live as soon as you turn 18, as it seems abuse is a ridiculously common occurrence where you live.
If not...which I suspect...What is wrong with you that abuse is all you think about?? If you yourself have been abused (which is possible, even likely, as you are practically the ONLY person in your life who you don't ever mention being abused), get some help for yourself.
If you are truly just obsessed (fascinated, in your own words in one of your questions)--get a freaking life, and hopefully a new fetish!
2006-12-19 04:05:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He or she may not feel the need to care for your child. But it is your child. A defenceless child and YOU as a parent should do the right thing and stop the physical abuse. No matter what the kid did, he is in no position to defend himself against an adult. This happens to many other kids who suffer in silence. Don't let your kid be one of them. Take control of your life and your child!
2006-12-19 03:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by looooooooooooooooooooooooserrrrr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have frying pans don't you? Belt them. I would go around punching them and kicking them every chance I got. When they get annoyed just tell them they should have thought about what they were doing. My son would always tell his nephew to say bad words. They all laughed it off. So I told the kid that since he gets slapped for saying the stuff that when he gets slapped he has the right to go over and kick the hell out of the uncle. It made the uncle stop real quick.
2006-12-19 03:44:10 · answer #6 · answered by Me2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the **** are they thinking? How would they like it if I went
and used them like a pinata and swung at them ,until I felt like they
had enough. Why didn't you stop them from using him for a punching bag? I don't give a **** if he was to get mad you stop
him from hurting your son. send them outside and let them hit on each other. If this continues you need to say something to your husband and if he doesn't want to listen call the police on his ***, that'll stop it. Protect your children, if you don't who will.
Your child will always remember this as he grows up, mommy
just standing there while I'm getting beat up by daddy and his
friends and you let it happened.
2006-12-19 06:46:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this really a question you have to ask hear? On yahoo? Come on now.
Hello
Call the police and press charges.
Take your son to the doctor.
Maybe read up on parenting for some help.
2006-12-19 03:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by cliffhanger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go to the childs aid and kick their butt, I bet one time they suffer a hurting by the boys mother, they would stop but I would also alert the cops and file a complaint and get a restraining order for goodness sake, your spouse is dangerous.
2006-12-19 03:51:20 · answer #9 · answered by Georgia Preacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i `would call the cops and press assault charges. then i would file a report with CPS. and take him in to be checked and make sure he's not seriously hurt. dump the friends and get rid of the spouse. no child deserves that. and no parent deserves to be a parent that will allow that to continue
2006-12-19 03:44:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋