I had a crush 6mths back. she was her best friend and just suffer a breakup. I was then pursuing my crush and had a wonderful time together but realise that my crush is not really for a relationship and I move on.Before that I promised her to bring her best friend back .
It started harmlessly and her best friend and i text each other frequently.. Then i start to send her gifts like her wishlist and her fav goodies personally. 3 mth later i realise i have feeling for her. I relentlessly Call her to wake her up every morning as she got problem waking up for work.
However recently she start to turn cold. She not longer seem to want to text me and reply only in short sentence. I did hint to her that i like her. She took it as if a joke but in fact I got a feeling she know it is true. I did not want to move in as she may not get over her ex as she is the type who is devoted in love. I wondering is it because of her ex, her best friend(my ex crush) and other reasons for her act?
2006-12-19 03:37:06 · 2 answers · asked by Fred 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am sure you wanting to know why it has ended suddenly, maybe because your crush is indeed having problems and trying to figure out what they are and does not want to get you involved, I am sure whatever gifts you did send her she appreciates them and in her own way has thanked you for you act of generosity. She may know you like her and is not going forward because of her ex if she is having problems getting over him, it does not seem likely that it is her best friend unless her best friend has said something to her to make her think otherwise and that is something you will never know until you find out what her real problem is. She could be having family problems or problems at work . whatever her reasons are she would not give you the cold shoulder if something was not wrong. She could be afraid to talk to you as a personal friend fearing you might not understand her and what she might be going through. If she knows you will be there for her to talk to as a friend maybe she will open up to you and not be afraid to speak her mind.
2006-12-19 03:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is afraid that you have only been her friend this whole time just to get with her. Get together with her and remind her of all the fun you two have together and lay off with the romantic gestures because she is obviously not ready.
2006-12-19 03:44:12 · answer #2 · answered by nitespector 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋