Well, my problem is that i have been chatting to a man who is aged 26 years old, and me i am 13, we have been chatting thorugh yahoo messenger, well my mom doesn't like it but me i love chatting wth him, he is really cool, understanding, i really like him!!! I have a sister and i hate her, she always tells my mom that i talk to that boy romantically or whatever, but it is not true, really not true, we are just friends and the fact is that my mom believes her. Now from that day, my mom always gets angry with me for nothing, she takes me like a *****, and i really hate it, please tell me what should i do? Please help me, please!!!
2006-12-19 03:33:48 · 5 answers · asked by Neha A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hi,
how sure you would know that you are talking to a26 yeard old? He can even show his friends photo or his photo when he was 26 years old and cheat you, Since he just wants to talk to you for some reason.
You might not be talking to him romaticly. But, instead of chating to him. By the time you can study, at this age you have to study.
13 is not an age to find a chat friend. You know how many people are missusing the internet and how many people's life have spoiled because of this.
If you want your mom to belive you, Why not you quit chating in internet. Instead you can be a good friend to your mom. Tell her that you want to be a good friend to her. Talk to her frankly and never hide anything from her. It is a goodway your mom can understand you. Unless you talk to her, your mom would not understand you properly.
At your age whoever say for your own good, You would not be able to accept it. If you really think you are smart and you want to prove yourself, You first quit chatting and talk to your mom and be a good friend to her . After you and your mom be a good friends, Then go for a chat and let her be asside and talk. So this way, as a parents and being a friend they feel you are safe.
It is not that your mom thinks you are romanting. She don;t want you to be in a trouble and spoil your life. May be in angry , she would said some words, But from her heart, your mom wants you to be safe.
Think if you being a mom and if your kid doing same as you, what would you do? Won't you think your kid wants to be safe?
Now you will think that you will explain politly to your kid. But at the time you may react as same as your mom did. Or your mom would not known how to react. so she would have said in angryness. You should not mind that. Instead you have to take the right thing and avoide what she said in agryness.And prove her you are not like that.Simple one but it takes time.
2006-12-19 11:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by Mayandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 13 and the man (not boy) says he is 26. You do not know whether it is true. With the availability of internet, the sexual preditors are prying on young girls and sweet talk to them. a preteen or a teen falls for these sweet talk. mor than 90% of the time, these guys are the middle aged men who is going through their mid life crisis. They have experience in life and they know how to talk and take advantage of young girls who know nothing about the crooked ways of the world. So be careful dear and keep your eyes open and get smart.
2006-12-19 23:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by "Vallamkali" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
darlin, there are so many other things for you to be interested in right now...why does it have to be a 26 yr old man? i'm sure your mom is just crazy with worry for you. she loves you and doesn't want to see anything bad happen to you! don't you have friends your own age to chat with and have fun with? maybe you should try to get involved with girls and boys your own age...go OUT and have fun with them instead of sitting in front of your computer chatting with a grown man! What kind of 26 yr old man is OK chatting with a 13 yr old girl? He might be a stalker or something like that...please be careful! Your mom just wants the best for you!
2006-12-19 13:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by shell92107 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a pedophile. Don't encourage his behavior. No man will befriend an underage girl online unless he's a pedophile. He's manipulating you with sweet words and "friendship" until you let down your guard. If he tries to arrange a face to face meeting or tries to get you to talk on the phone with him, You NEED to cut off all communication with this sick man. Please don't let yourself become another statistic. I wish you well. Please be careful.
2006-12-19 23:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT TALK TO HIM!!!! dont you know? they are all predators...you think that hes sweet and ****, but next thing you know he'll be raping you! take me seriously, i really hope that doesnt happen! stop talking to him....
2006-12-19 16:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by Heera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋