another girl and wait till she has finished with her boyfriend
and get with her ?
2006-12-19 03:26:43 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This sounds really bad, Morally on both half's. It sounds to me like u think a guy likes U, but he is waiting for u to break up with your current BF before her dumps his girl friend N starts dating U. I assume U must be interested in him if UR asking this Question. Believe me I'm no saint. Ive been put in this dilemma many times N messed up. Its best to take interest in people who R single. If someone dumps their significant other for U chances R good they'll do the same to U the next time something better comes along.
Now if you R worried about your BF leaving U for another woman U think hes interested in. This situation would be a very calculated one and hard to pull off unless the two of them R hanging out allot N talking about her/their relationship problem's together. Then they could be able to lead the other to believe that they could be together if they broke up with their lovers.
Anyway hope UR not just being paranoid try not to read into something that's not there. Its best to think positive about your relationship till theirs good reason not too. Then U need to work those things out or leave the relationship. The person your with should make u feel secure or should i say not be doing anything to make U feel insecure. It is UR job to feel secure in your relationship. If its just a matter of your boyfriend getting along with another female in a relationship with someone else. I wouldn't worry about that. I know that in my past being a man, I feel more comfortable talking to a woman in a relationship. Then a single woman cause i feel that when I converse with a single woman she will think I'm interested in her, when all I really want is interesting conversation. If i have a lover/GF I feel that they would be way more secure about me talking with N being friends with a woman that is in a secure relationship.
Well anyway i was just Bord, every ones a wake now gotta go. But people man or woman i believe can love more than one person at a time, its crazy to think that they couldn't. We love everyone in our family's equal. So why couldn't we love two lovers the same. Although I don't think we should it make things way too complicated, for the two lovers anyway. Good Luck
2006-12-19 05:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jimmy F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's up to whether the girl who is interested is willing to be put on hold for this guy. If that girl is even considering going out with the new guy, she probably should dump boyfriend #1 because I doubt that she is truly interested in Boyfriend #1, just the security of having a boyfriend.
The same goes for the man,
It seems to me that the two of these people should be talking about this AFTER they have broken up with their respective currrent interests. At that point, if they are interested, then go for it.
2006-12-19 11:29:49 · answer #2 · answered by Searcher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girl he was waiting for really liked him, why would she stay with her current boyfriend? I would say the guy needs to get a grip and go find someone else.
2006-12-19 11:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by wakingwolf79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really liked the girl, he would not go with another one. He would just wait until she has broken up with her current boyfriend, and then get with her.
2006-12-19 11:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by merideathx 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nah, not exactly a great idea.
He becomes the other man in the relationship. If she doesn't want to date him, then she would break up with him.
To say that he needs a girlfriend until this other girl breaks up with her boyfriend is really cheap. Why does he ALWAYS need a girlfriend?
If you're in this situation, dump his sorry butt.
2006-12-19 11:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well it happens but if he really liked the girl i wouldint suggest going out with another girl, and he should talk to the girl and see if shes gonna break up with her current boyfriend,
2006-12-19 11:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by stuntowns7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but its messed up because the girl hes using for right now my get attached and then he dumps her for another girl. thats a crappy thing to do.
2006-12-19 11:31:14 · answer #7 · answered by Jmkisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep
2006-12-19 11:28:20 · answer #8 · answered by Rowdy Yayhoot 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a man is capable of anything in that nature. they can be with 20 girls if they could.
2006-12-19 11:28:56 · answer #9 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, or get with her while he's with another girl and she's with another guy... You should just have sex with him... :D
2006-12-19 11:29:05 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋