Why do I keep on having my ex boyfriend in my dreams?

Answer 1

I think the fact that you're still seeing your ex-boyfriend in your dreams is a sign that you still have unresolved issues to deal with in relation to him. If your dreams are lovey-dovey sentimental dreams, then you have clearly not got over breaking up with him. You maybe are still in love with him deep down inside and you have either got to try and get back with him, or you have seriously got to sit yourself down and persuade yourself once and for all that it would be wrong to go back. The only way to do that is to be a very hard-nosed with yourself and tell yourself that it is over, stick to that decision and avoid him at all costs in social situations.

If your dreams are sexy erotic dreams then it is clear that you are remembering how much you enjoyed sex with him, but it is not necessarily a portent that you still feel romantically charged by him. The fact that he is your ex speaks volumes for the fact that even although he was great for you in bed, you obviously do not consider him to be the marrying kind or a great potential father to your future children. Therefore, that should be enough of an incentive to you to put him firmly in your past and move on.

If the dream is a nasty dream like a nightmare, then you are clearly still very angry with him and blame him for the break up. You have to get these issues you have with him dealt with once and for all, otherwise you are going to drive yourself insane.

Whatever kind of dream you are having, you have to get all the outstanding issues dealt with as soon as possible (today would be an excellent starting point!) and the only one who can clear up the fallout from a relationship breakdown is yourself and your ex, no one else. Get out there and deal with it. Be quite objective about how you go about it and whatever decision(s) you make, stick to them rigidly. If you are totally honest with yourself how you feel about this guy, you will be amazed how well you will sleep in the future.

Good luck to you, Eva!

Answer 2

1

Answer 3

It really depends what kinda of dreams your having. I'm guessing it's more pleasent dreams rather than nightmare type dreams.

It could be that you still have a deep down desire to be with your ex partner and you still love him. It's hard to answer without some detail into what happened. Maybe you wish to seem again, perhaps inside you want to give it another go. Dreams are said to come from your subconscience so maybe that is how you truely feel. Some insight on what happened in the dream would help.

EDIT: You might also find that your not dreaming of your ex but perhaps a current partner but he just sybolises him. It could be a current situation that is going on, maybe what happened with your ex is happening again with someone else. You can never be sure really, it could be a mixture of different things, different people will see it differently.

Answer 4

Well dreams can mean so many different things.
However if you are seeing your ex in your dreams it can mean that you still have him on your mind, do you have unfinished business or maybe your not over him yet.
Either way you have to think about not just the fact that he is in your dream but what is your dream about, like are you back with him in your dream or is he with another girl in your dream. You have to think of these things so it can make more sense to you.
Remember though it is only a dream so don't be worrying too much about it.

Answer 5

You can never tell with your dreams, they can sometimes be reliable & sometimes be totally off. If you're still with your ex in your dreams, then maybe you do still care about him. Try during the day thinking about being together with him again and look at your reaction. Does it make you happy, upset, or do you really have no opinion? But don't trust your dreams to tell you everything

Answer 6

Dreams are in metaphor. Something in your current circumstances has a similarity to the relationship with your Ex. It might be anyone, male or female, not necessarily another bf. See what the emotional parallels are in something in your current life and what happened with your ex and how you felt about it. Notice when you have the dream, if it's recurrent.

Answer 7

I used to get this all the time, sadly its not a sign that they are thinking or dreaming of you, its just your subconcious granting you a bit of respite from the sadness you feel for not having them in your life any more. eventually your dreams will stop and you'll realise they were an important but passed chapter in your life and the chapter your're writing now is the most important. good luck.

Answer 8

Don't worry. I have dreams sometimes with my ex in it, and I have no feelings for him whatsoever. As a matter of fact... I am married now lol. Sometimes I have dreams about people I don't think I have ever even seen in real life lol. It's just a dream. People who are in your memory, etc. If you feel that you don't love him anymore, then you probably don't. A dream is a dream. :-)

Answer 9

its so nice to meet someone going throu the same things .... i wish i could answer your question but as much i try to find answers there are not one there
i am dreaming of my ex too , and not only one time but very often lately
maybe he is thinking of u too this days and its kind of a sign , i dont really know but i think its a good thing and i dont agree with people telling that it must be u caring feelings or wish him back , it can be him also .
pls keep me up to date if u find any answer ok ???
have a nice "dreamtime" :-) and merry xmas

Answer 10

Dreams are very often images of things past plus all the emotions you felt will have affected your subconscious. Unfortunately not a lot can be done about it, just time and hopefully dreams of a new love interest :o)