2006-12-19 03:07:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Find out why. If many people say the same thing then examine your self. If you have some correctable flaws then fix them.
If one or two people are just petty people in general - just pay no attention to them and go on with your life. You can't please everyone.
2006-12-19 03:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't have that problem, but I wouldn't do anything. It's their problem if they can't handle me. People who claim they can't handle things just shows how weak they truely are and I don't want to be around those people anyhow. So, I wouldn't worry about what to do. Just be yourself and try to be a good person. GOD bless you.
2006-12-19 11:43:07 · answer #2 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get that alot!My mom is a BIG drama queen and I get mad at her for being a drama queen and she says she can't handle me!I am only 12 years old and going into teenage years and I think my mom should get used to it!About you,who says that about you?If it is you'r mom or dad it might be becouse you'r not doing anything for them,maybe!
2006-12-19 11:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by HSMLOVER 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it depends on the position that you have. if you are in chagre of someone then you have to accomidate the way everyone is going to handle your reactions. you cant just step on people your whole life and expect respect. you have to take others feelings into consideration. you dont have to bow down and be a people pleaser, just dont be harsh if it is not warranted.
2006-12-19 11:16:38 · answer #4 · answered by chrissys08 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should Annalise what makes it so that people can not handle you. Is it you or is it them. If you do not i could be a very hard and lonely life for you.
2006-12-19 11:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by chris a 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't care what other people think of me. If they don't like me or as you say can't handle me than that is their loss. No skin off my nose. Move on to bigger and better. :)
2006-12-19 11:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on the situation-
1- people that matter (loved ones, bosses who can fire you)- try to tone it down and be more cooperative- life is a compromise
2- everyone else- who the hell cares?!
2006-12-19 11:45:05 · answer #7 · answered by GEEGEE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't change the way people react, but you can "get a hint" on ways for improving yourself in the "mirror image" some people may reflect you.
2006-12-19 11:10:49 · answer #8 · answered by morganna_f 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Actually a good question. Avoid some of the people, try to "tone" it down a bit.
2006-12-19 11:12:53 · answer #9 · answered by nanny4hap 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Think about what it is they can't 'handle' about you.
2006-12-19 11:15:48 · answer #10 · answered by misskenjr 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋