I know a guy who is best friends with my brother, over the past few months, we have been getting closer, nothing has happened, should I go there? Are would it be unfair to my brother, family comes first right. Every time I speak to him, fee that I can be myself around him.
2006-12-19 03:02:06 · 20 answers · asked by ABBYGIRL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
family does come first, but if you both like each other your brother should be okay with it....unless he knows things about the guy and thinks you shouldnt be with him i dont see y it would be a problem....
2006-12-19 03:05:00 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Right 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your brother about it and see how he feels about it cause if things don't work out the friend might feel weird about going over to the house..but if ur brother says he doesn't have a problem with it then go for it but if he does then don't go there..
2006-12-19 11:05:15 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow what your heart is saying... If you really want to try then do it but if you think it won't work out because it would be unfair then do aviod it if you must... You said family first right? So if you go for it your brother would understad right? Why not try? Or not...
2006-12-19 11:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by Dark Valentine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right family comes first. BUT, if you talk to your brother and he doesnt mind, go for it. My brother dated his friends sister, and he did not have a problem with them being together. Good Luck!!!
2006-12-19 11:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by Spoiled 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you be doing wrong ? If you feel funny about it, speak to your brother. How nice would it be for the two of you to be together and know that your family, brother, already likes him !
2006-12-19 11:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by Growl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am dating my brothers friend but he asked my brother for permission first so i think you and this guy should talk and if your both serious about it he should ask your brother or you should this can work out great trust me i have never been more happy my brother said yes because he knew what a great guy his friend is and knew he would treat me right i love him to death and its the best thing to ever happen to me!!!
2006-12-19 11:07:51 · answer #6 · answered by Kadie-bird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your brother and that guy are friends, your brother should be happy if the two of you got together. I really don't think it is unfair to your brother...
good luck!
2006-12-19 11:06:44 · answer #7 · answered by sea_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, there could be 2 sides to this depending on your opinion.
If you think family comes first, you'll stay away from your brothers friends.
But....
If you are the type of person who knows what's good for you, and you think this relationship could be good for you, then you should go for it.
See, it's not based on whats right or whats wrong. It's based on opinion.
2006-12-19 11:07:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he shows that he has feelings for u too , ur brother should understand n let both of u be happy. but it would be best if u as him if he is comfortable with it, because i just had that situation and now were dating. but i made sure the first thing i did was ask my brother,not for permission but for his blessing .
2006-12-19 11:07:48 · answer #9 · answered by christina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your brother about it, make sure that he will give his blessing. As you said family comes first, so if he approves go for it! If not I would keep it as just friends.
2006-12-19 11:04:53 · answer #10 · answered by Sean D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋