This girl that said she did not want a relationship three months ago and said she wanted to be friends. I let her be my friend and looked for a REAL relationship. Now that I have found a girl that is interested in me, she is whining that she wished I would go out with her. I flattly told her that I love the girl that I am with, and she had her chance. She started crying. Why do girls do this?? I feel bad for hurting her, but she made it clear she wanted to be friends. Why has she been crying for three days straight?
2006-12-19 02:59:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cause you've hurt her ego.
don't you know what they say?! you only realize what you had once you lost it...
2006-12-19 03:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by sea_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haven't you heard the saying before "Forbidden fruit always taste the sweetest"???That is the answer to your question and i know because i have been in similar situations in the past!!!I was with my boyfriend for almost 6 years and we broken up because i thought i wanted someone else and even though i was with someone else it just about killed me when i find out that he was seeing someone as well,although i didn't really want him at the time i didn't want him to have no one else either,although that don't make sense that's the way i felt!!!!!I finally begged him for forgiveness and he took me back,we have been together now for another four years so that's 10 years all together so i guess it really is meant to be!!!!At the time when you wanted that girl she probably wasn't ready for a relationship or she probably felt that you would wait around for her but now that you are with someone else it is tearing her apart inside to know that she can't and maybe never will have you!!!!!I say follow you heart if you are truly happy with the girl you are with now stay with her and you can't be worried about hurting the other girls feelings because she had her chance but now you have moved on and it's too late she must realize that and not make the same mistakes in the future!!!!Good luck to you all,i hope it works out for you soon and just let your heart guide you then everything else will fall in it's place!!!!
2006-12-19 03:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by Baybee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kind of like when you're kids, you completely ignore a toy until someone else wants to play with it. She's just not ready for a relationship if she's gonna be immature about it like that. Stay with your girl and help her find someone for herself.
2006-12-19 03:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by Bebe Bluff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls do that bc they are jelous she prolly wanted to be your frind but didnt want you to find anyone esle and now that you have she hates it.. She will get over it sooner or later just stick with the girl you got .. She will come around and try to be friends with you again.
2006-12-19 03:06:21 · answer #4 · answered by Bwitt Bwitt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men do it too.. that's too bad for her. She missed the boat, now she has to get on another one. She'll get over it.
2006-12-19 03:04:49 · answer #5 · answered by supernaturaldj2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically it always like this she figured you'll always be around now that she cant have you she wants you...like the saying goes you always want what you cant have its human nature but if i were u i would persure the new gurl
2006-12-19 03:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by Nena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forbidden fruit and if another girl is now dating him obviously he is datable and hell we want him cuz apparently something is there or no woman would ever want him... jealousy too
2006-12-19 03:09:43 · answer #7 · answered by blueball 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people don't realize what they have until they lose it.
2006-12-19 03:03:35 · answer #8 · answered by Sean D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause girls are dumb if your good now, try and stay friends
2006-12-19 03:01:59 · answer #9 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋